JOIN THE 90 DAY REBOOT PROGRAM HERE!! (CHECKED DAILY AND HOSTED BY Real_OGH)

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Real_OGH, Sep 18, 2015.

when does everyone want to start the reboot?

  1. 21th September

  2. 1th October

  3. ASAP

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  1. Asadi

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    Okay, I haven't been on here in a long time but im on day 17 which is the longest I've gone in months! I've been under a lot of stress recently and the desire I've had is insane. My girlfriend has been away for the past two days so I've been on my own. However I'm meeting up with someone new to this tomorrow so I must stay strong in preparation for strengthening their journey.
     
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  2. OluwaBrume

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    Never heard of it, I'll check it out. If u don't mind can u send me a pictures of ur robot:) [email protected]
     
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  3. vasu

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    I created a separate counter and named it as "O" for such situations. IMO it should be considered good as it increases your intimacy with your significant other.
     
  4. Pelo

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  5. Sam@89

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    Hello my fellow comrades.This 9 day journey has been wonderful and I've tried to stay more and more active here and that has significantly made me a better person with a reasonable mind that can differentiate between good and bad.I've had more and more control with each day and I've made the biggest streak in last 3 years.I wouldn't let it waste.I don't want myself in those things again for sure but I'm still scared because I've failed again and again before joining this community.
    This community has definitely helped me.So I have decided that I will check in here once in two days now.I have fought boredom with watching movie or some TV series or just scrolled Facebook or tried my hands on guitar(I'm a beginner).I'm beginning to have control over myself.I've exams coming up in a month.I hope this stays like this.I'm really very hopeful and positive about it.I wish you all good luck too.
     
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  6. Mlaj

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    I just relapsed. Bloody triggers! I'll avoid them like the plague. Just a peek is my downfall. The good thing is I came to my senses just after MO, and here I am, writing this. I need a real woman, to fall in love and make love to. NoFap is helping me a lot. Before I joined, I never thought it was a problem; I'd relapse and do the same the next day. Now I can spend at least two weeks. Now, I need to break my 19-day-record. Good luck to all.

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  7. Mlaj

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    I didn't realized a have PIED until this summer. My penis was so used to my MO (and PMO) that I had to make an effort to keep it up. The last time I tried, I couldn't have sex, but I still could M. Now I notice the erections (when awaking), and they are hard, and I make some exercises from the book "Sexual Healing", by Barbara Keesling, to cure ED. And they are working. I tried them a year ago, but they didn't work perfectly because I was suffering PIED. So, I needed to quit porn first.
     
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  8. JimSwe

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    I am interested in that book as I too suffer from this PIED. During my time with my exgirlfriend things eventually got better after a couple of months together. She knew about me not being so sensitive in this area because of P so she didn't let me finish by my own, but had sex until I O:d, Or I was to be "unsatisfied" if I didn't O through sex. Just before the breakup I O:d after ten or even five minutes. Never ever happened before. The best sex I ever had. So I know it can work. PMO is sooo bad.

    Is the book about physical exercises (got some funny pictures in my head:rolleyes:) or mental training? Today is my 44th day. NO urges for a couple of days now and I feel strong, and wish this for all of you.
    I really am so thankful for the support here and everyone sharing their good and bad experiences.

    Edit (@Mlaj I just read about the relapse. You can do it again. Do count that +19 days in your head and it will work out well. Keep strong!
     
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  9. Mlaj

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    "Sexual Healing" has a mix of both. I hasn't got any pictures, though ;). The one I'm doing for ED is just caressing the base of my penis for ten minutes (at the same time, I'm thinking I'm with a woman). It works!
     
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  10. TeePee

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    NoFap 30 Day Mark Experience (Long post)
    A whole lot has happened prior to these 30 days. It is very difficult to translate it into words but I'll do my best. I'll break my experience down into the things that really stood out the most for me. Here they are:

    TRIGGERS
    What were they and how did I act towards them?
    Triggers are everywhere. I mean there's a sexual innuendo of some sort in almost every film, cartoon, TV series or advertisement but for me, triggers came from TV series and music videos. My solution? I stop watching and go do something else instead. I often change the channel quickly or just turn the TV off often in rage because they (society) don't want to see us win...

    What do I generally think about them thus far?
    Well, media and society are very aware of how powerful sexual energy is! We're all familiar with the term "sex sells", well, unfortunately that's very true, but, I want to shed some light on something that I found to be quite disturbing. Remember vanilla porn (softcore). Well, almost 90% of pornsites don't offer that stuff anymore, in fact, the way the sites are set up, they don't even give you an option... it's straight to the hard-core stuff! The softcore stuff is slowly being displaced and reintergrated into commercial media. It's not uncommon to see half naked or even almost-fully-naked women in commercials, series and especially music videos - certain female Hip-hop artists, whom I shall not name (and whom I fapped to many-a-times) exploit this to the greatest possible degree. This commercialized vanilla just lubes you up to go and binge on the hard-core stuff. It's a vicious cycle...

    MENTAL STATUS
    MMA's ( Morning Mental Attack(s) )
    Which is just waking up with a dark cloud hovering above you, feeling extremely depressed and unwilling to face the day. I've had nothing of that sort until this point in time. Getting a MMA just screw your ENTIRE day up!

    Courage to confront thoughts I've been running away from and avoiding (via distractions like PMO)
    Ok, so I have been deeply thinking about my ex and our breakup and its causes and I had to consciously reflect back on our relationship and internally take responsibility for how things went (due to my PMO). I'm talking lack of trust, emotional disconnection, feeling insecure when she was around other dudes, not feeling confident or good enough, being unable to make eye contact with her and feeling like our relationship is one bad script that I've written for us both and getting super mad and defensive when she deviates from it (basically... failure to just be authentic). Also to just forgive myself you know :). To move forward positively...

    PHYSICAL STATUS
    Weird sensation in penis around 2-week mark.
    Ok, so around 14-15 days I have been experiencing a weird sensation in my penis, especially after I pee. It felt as if after the urine, a stream of jizz would soon follow! Thankfully, that was not the case. Also, there was this particular time where I just finished taking a bath and I got that exact same feeling so I decided to firmly hold my (flaccid) penis and squeeze gently and as I did, a clear, thick, jelly-like substance came out. It was not a lot but it had a slippery texture and it felt like really thick semen...

    So there you go, that has been my experience thus far. It was really tough to put it in words but I hope it helps someone :)
     
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  11. Sam@89

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    You're on an incredible journey.Really delighted to know you've made it to a month.It gives me strength too.
     
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  12. modetorres

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    76 day.
    Well on Thursday I met this girl at a party, she has a great personality and I think we could be good friends, but I have no illusions this time I want to go slow and think a little before to take a risk and fall again.
     
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  13. M4s1cF@n7

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    Yes I have things to occupy my mind. Nicely done. :) thank you. Good luck to you also
     
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  14. M4s1cF@n7

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    I would say utilize this forum and other forums here. Also finding and doing things you enjoy can be helpful.
     
  15. modetorres

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    this day was a shitty day, i'm feeling so fucking lonely today.
    Has passed already 77 days since the last time I saw porn, and I masturbate and the saddest thing is that sometimes still feel the same but I do not know how long it necessary to return to normal but what I know is that I will not back to watching porn or masturbate anymore
     
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  16. It's About TIme

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    Day 40
    I've been taking the last few days really chill and spent a lot of time relaxing. Time to start get moving again with the start of a new week. Also I had back to back wet dreams which always leave me feeling weird :(. It's really cool I'm at 40 though :)
     
  17. JimSwe

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    Day 47.
    Today I told a friend about this mission I'm on. And I appears to be more confident and both stronger and happier now she said.
    It works!!! It works!!! Yeeaahh:D
     
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  18. JakeRener

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    I have started to feel the difference.
    I am certainly more energetic and positive.
     
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  19. It's About TIme

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    Day 41
    I wasted a lot of time today and wasn't happy but tomorrow is a new day.
     
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  20. modetorres

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    Day 79.
    So guys, I'm bored now but yesterday was so funny xD
    I went to a strip club with my friends and I forget my ID so they do not let me into the club, my friend gave me the keys to his car and I get tired of waiting and started to learn to drive, it was great after who left the club, we went to eat and that was it.
     
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