JOIN THE 90 DAY REBOOT PROGRAM HERE!! (CHECKED DAILY AND HOSTED BY Real_OGH)

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Real_OGH, Sep 18, 2015.

when does everyone want to start the reboot?

  1. 21th September

  2. 1th October

  3. ASAP

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  1. Marty81

    Marty81 Fapstronaut

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    Yeah that sounds reasonable to me. At the end of the day you need to have a strategy that works for you and a goal that is realistic. So if you can make it to 90 days without actual PMO I would still call that a victory, going straight into complete hard mode from day 1 was maybe not going to work for you.

    As far as I'm concerned, being involuntarily turned on by things in everyday life is not a failure even in hard mode, it's only an issue when I deliberately look for it. I guess it will be very hard for you to avoid things that are going to act as triggers and I don't know how you deal with that, but checking in regularly is definitely one good strategy IMO.
     
  2. M4s1cF@n7

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    I haven't been on here in awhile. I thought I could just do it on my own and was ashamed. I was a day away from three weeks and I relapsed twice in one night. Since then I haven't been able to make it a week. I made it close once but I have relapsed so much. I relapsed three times today alone. I am disgusted with myself. I don't like feeling this way. I need to do something different I just haven't figured out exactly what that is yet. I have some ideas I need to decide which one to try.
     
  3. ayas

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    I am joining you guys.. I am on day 29 already
     
  4. Folks, day 14 for me. Hard to believe! My problem is using up all the extra energy. Good problem to have though. Tactic is to avoid the enemy - once PMO engages me it gets too difficult. Have to move fast, think fast and outmanoeuvre. Still noticing all the benefits which are well documented - I'm enjoying people's company more which is great. Had first wet dream last night and it came as a great relief I have to say. No hands involved so I'm not taking it as a defeat. Felt so chilled this morning.

    Re what counts as giving in - for me I judge on the fruits. I have touched myself a few times but never came close to ejaculation and it didn't effect my mood or make me less sociable or energetic afterwards/next day. So for me that counts as continued success. That said, each small risk encourages another and I need to be stricter with myself for the next while, like how I was for the first week.

    The video about cold showers on NoFap Adademy youtube channel is brilliant. I'm on cold showers every morning now and it is becoming less and less of a big deal.

    At this moment there are few things I value as much in my life as this forum. What a blessing.
     
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  5. Andy21

    Andy21 Fapstronaut

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    Day 49. Not going to give in. More than half-way now.
     
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  6. GradBeo

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    Guys short summary! // day 18
    • Cold showers - becoming easier
    • Improved energy levels and sleep and focus
    • Mood swings but generally more positive
    • I'm more assertive, slightly but noticable
    • I'm so far in I won't give up.
    Guys the benefits come and go but your general feeling about life and its challenges become gradually becomes slightly better. You can still feel very bad but in my case I recover way faster. I am surrounded by very pretty girls at my work but I am more focussed on my work and my colleagues, and not in a forceful way - really. I didn't believe the benefits, I just couldn't imagine them, but now I'm here, I feel in what way it is true. You don't become another human, just a slightly better version of yourself, it's totally worth it. Keep on going my NoFap brothers!
     
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  7. OluwaBrume

    OluwaBrume Fapstronaut

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    Day 55
    In the spirit of Nofap:D
     
  8. rootb3r

    rootb3r Fapstronaut

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    Everything was going great until today. Also, I have divided the 90-day challenge into smaller parts i.e. into 3-day parts and now it has become quite easy for me to Nofap.
     
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  9. It's About TIme

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    All right, so I'm back, I haven't posted much on here because I found it to become a trigger but I'm focusing more on living my life and being productive than not PMOing.
     
  10. Sam Mo

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    I am on day 4.

    guys quick question.
    when does the social anxiety start to disappear and also when does the 'flat line' start?
    i wanna be ready for that..
    any help is appreciated
     
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  11. Shawn94

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    Hello everyone, first time posting.
    I am currently 14 days NOFAP/NOPMO, the longest I have ever officially gone.

    I am also undertaking the Tony Soprano Challenge so that means cold showers only and 30 min Meditation everyday for 3 months.

    Have already been making positive changes slowly throughout the year plus I'm in a technical training school for the military so I'll be keep relatively busy.

    Had a headache around day 8-9, but it went away. Otherwise been enjoying myself. Any insights on what I may have to look forward to in the future?

    Thank you in advance.
     
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  12. GradBeo

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    Hi Sam Mo, I would not focus too much on seeing results because it differs per person and if you create expectations with this you might get disappointed. Also, progress comes and goes. I myself talk only just slightly more with people, the difference is there but it's not a day and night difference. Flatline started after a couple of days and I've been having it ever since (now day 21). But the overall feeling / quality of life does improve, slightly more positive approach, more energy etc. Good luck and well done on your 4 day streak, keep it up!
     
  13. Sam Mo

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    thank you for your post.

    i just wanna mentally prepare for myself for it so just incase if it does occur i know what it is rather than going back to fapping.
     
  14. rootb3r

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    I was on day 3 and lost my focus. Watched porn and fapped it was unbearable I wasn't able to control myself. It's becoming tough for me day by day.
     
  15. tigertank

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    I'm in. After 90 days will be my birthday. I want to give myself the best present ever!
     
  16. Sam Mo

    Sam Mo Fapstronaut

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    Im on day 6 currently

    i feel so motivated to do this for myself rather than someone else. feel slightly selfish but hey its worth it
     
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  17. Sam Mo

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    Hey
    Currently i am on day 7 of my streak and my plan is to get to full 90 days by end of February.
    my question is i m looking to get married to my girlfriend in either March or more probably April. is this a wise Idea?

    we are currently dating. we love each other alot and she knows everything about it and i am so happy she understands everything and said get to 90 days do a full reboot and i am yours.

    secondly, currently we dont to anything intimate as i feel that might hit me harder, so i haven't really been that intimate with her. once we get married having normal sex will that count as a relapse as i feel i want to get 1 FULL year under my belt of NO PMO.

    Any advice from friends will be really appreciated.

    thanks in advance guys.
     
  18. Kvath

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    Hey persons! Joining again to you with no obstacles on the way this time >: ) My last streak was 44 days no PM and i'm currently on 11 days starting on november 25. Let's go 90 days!
     
    Last edited: Dec 6, 2016
  19. Rogue2217

    Rogue2217 Fapstronaut

    Joining in! This is my first attempt at NoFap/ no PMO... Day 2 over here... coming from someone who fapped every single day this is already frustrating especially keeping thoughts out of the mind.
     
  20. tigertank

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    Hey Sam,

    First I want to congrat you of having such a nice person in your life. I assume she knows about your situation.

    I don't think there's a problem of getting married. It's about how do you spend after. You did great with not having any intimacy with her because it takes a lot of discipline. And if she understands your problem, she should supports you.

    I don't think that's count as relapse but I agree with No PMO for a year. I'm sure that will recover alot. If you guys loving each other truly, you both should wait. Make sure you communicate with each other. Do not let her down.

    For me, nofap is about not having fake life anymore. Since you have some one like her, you should be very fortunate.

    My plan is to give myself a 90 days present for my birthday. That will be from now and I know it's going to be tough. I have a girlfriend whom I love so much but I couldn't tell her my problem yet. I was scared of hurting her. So I'd like to reboot myself first and see what's next.
     

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