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Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Real_OGH, Sep 18, 2015.
Relapsed yesterday. :-(
Yo man IM FUCKING BACK! I reached 60 days in the past, and relapsed and started choking my chicken again like a motherfumotherfuckerjcker, BUT FUCK IT.
MAXIMUM EFFORT MODE ON
IM GOING FOR THE 90 days BABY!
Thanks everybody !!!! I'll do my best. blessings to everyone
Guys this is a serious issue.It was for me as well but i have learned to handle it and move on.The urges and the temptation are huge and i mean it but you have to sustain it and keep moving forward otherwise you will be here for years saying that you reached x days and then relapsed.Find the root of the problem.What made you relapse?Was it the urges?For example let me tell you what happened to me last time i relapsed.I could handle the urges directly but my brain was telling me to do things that will not damage my journey.That little voice told me it is okay just undress and see how horny you are.Guess what happens next.Yes relapse and reset.
It is hard in the first few days but then the urges stop and leave you alone.But even if they do not you have learned to control yourself and you won't do anything stupid that will lead to a relapse.Whatever my brain was telling me to do i just said: "Yeah sounds like a good idea but I'm gonna have to pass the offer".Keeping yourself occupied helps a lot because when you are busy with something the urges usually don't strike you because you are focused on something else.Also you have to find another habit that drains you from your energy (like working out for example) so that you can "blow steam off" that way and maintain your path.
In the beginning i could not stop i felt like trapped but then i took the situation in my hands and told this habit to go away.Of course this happened after many attempts but i learned from my mistakes and moved on (even though it took me a while to learn from my mistakes but better late than never).It is all in your head trust me.There is no real need to PMO,it is just your brain trying to trick you because it was part of your routine so when you stopped your brain said "What the heck did you do we need that thing because it helps us don't you see?".After a while though the reality become clearer and clearer and you realize that you did not need it to "survive"
You are the sole "masters" of your brain.Don't let that habit take your place and seize control of you because no matter what you want to do it won't let you do it.You will always be like a child who needs his parents permission to do anything.You were like that for a long time and it is time you grow up and claim what belongs to you.
Day 10 gone. Thanks for this community
Breaking this cycle is the beginning of TRUE recovery
Day 1 for me. I have to accept that seeing nude women on my phone our computer will trigger me to fap. I want a real girlfriend or wife so no more pmo for me.
Seven days in. First serious temptation in the early hours - bit of edging but no P or O and so after some soul-searching decided not reset clock.
Day twelve completed. Almost two weeks done.
Almost 3 weeks here. Still having trouble falling asleep.
Relapsed here on Day 13. Had a guy reverse into my car today and as well as being soo tired today, it kinda weakened my defenses. So now I need to find another way of dealing with that
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I am on 8th day. 20th Aug will be my 90th day.
I am in
Hi guys, I have been away busy with school and everything, but has not been been able to go more than a week. But before I used to FAP almost daily, thanks to NoFap it's reduced to once a week or so. So am back and this time to do better hopefully.
Day 8. Suddenly it feels a bit easier, flatline usually takes a bit longer but, hell, I'm not complaining - and not about to remotely get complacent, either
Hello guys ! I'm joining the challenge ! This is day one for me !
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Good luck, you've come to the right place, full of supportive, brave and encouraging folk who are all marching towards the light one day at a time!