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  • 21th September

  • 1th October

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My strategy is (when it's not possible to just the change the matter) to trick my mind
...or its the other way round: when arguing doesn't help, when you're tricking yourself in the wrong way then: OUT
OUT OF THE THINKING / OUT OF THE BED / OUT OF THE INTERNET / OUT OF THE HOUSE
 
I'm now on my 48th day. The urges are there, some days stronger others not so much but I've learned to accept them as part of who I am :) Remember to embrace the urges because they will make you stronger. Keep up the fight guys!
 
Check-in

Last check-in was a while back. Things are going great as of now. I'm struggling with my other daily goals. Not so much with no PMO. Heading back to uni tomorrow. Crucial and important time ahead. I have to maintain my focus and determination on the same level as on day one. This one's a life long marathon. Everyday its time to pick yourself up and continue running. 7 more days to reach the 60 day mark. Looking forward to another monthly update.
 
I'm now on my 48th day. The urges are there, some days stronger others not so much but I've learned to accept them as part of who I am :) Remember to embrace the urges because they will make you stronger. Keep up the fight guys!
Nice words man. Its a good way for dealing with urges. Accepting they exist, they are there and they will be there, be we are the masters of our life, of our decisions.
 
Nice words man. Its a good way for dealing with urges. Accepting they exist, they are there and they will be there, be we are the masters of our life, of our decisions.
Absolutely bro! During all my previous attempts I never made it far because I always felt like shit whenever I had the urges... I saw them as something bad. I couldn't understand why I had to endure them if I was doing what was "right". Now I just accept that they will be there and actually I take them as something that helps me rewire my brain :)
 
sorry guys i relapsed will start again please do not exclude me from this group.
Bro no one will exclude you because you relapsed. You are honestly trying to do something that will improve your life just like everyone else here is doing. You are, or should be, doing it for yourself, because you want to feel better and get rid of all the negative effects that PMO has. Relapsing happens, just don't let it get you down. "Fall seven times, stand up eight..." Keep it up, we are all on the same road.
 
Hi! I am new here and I want to start a new journey. I want to join the 90 day reboot. How can I set my counter? Thanks guys.
 
Hi! I am new here and I want to start a new journey. I want to join the 90 day reboot. How can I set my counter? Thanks guys.
Welcome!
You could set a counter with a 90 days target. You could set smaller targets as well, as 90 days seems very long to you. Or you could just count the days as well.
Have a good day!
 
how's everybody going here??
Still going with it. My biggest difficulty is letting go of P subs. Letting go of MO hasn't been the tricky part, it's the constant fantasizing and checking out other people that I need to work on. But it's hard because I feel kind of lonely, and PMO was my way of dealing with that.
 
Anyone on here who hasn't broken their streak since this challenge started sometime around September 19th?
Here I am :)
Keeping up the spirit of the challange atm, the worst thing I've experienced (and actually it's not over yet) is a sort of anxiety in the form of "strong" heart beating that I have from time to time (mostly when in closed spaces).. it it wierd for me cause I've never suffered of something like this but still.. it can't keep on going forever like this, only my abstention will!

GL to you all
 
But it's hard because I feel kind of lonely, and PMO was my way of dealing with that.

I am/was never lonely. Always had friends but now that I'm abstaining from PMO, I'm craving some sort of emotional connetiom with a person of the other gender. I'm satisfying it by ogling and fantasising. I bet it would stop if I find myself a gf. Let's see.

Here I am :)

That's three of us who've survived so far. We're coming up on two months. How do you plan on celebrating?
 
I'm not sure either. I've gifted myself a Molskine 12 month Daily Planner for 2016. I could spare only 50$ from around 2000$ I made from my internship. Had to use the rest to pay me credit card debt. I also have to do a couple of things I need to sort out over the next three months. I'll be happy if I make some progress there.

I'm looking forward to updating my thread in Success Stories. I'm in that position where you're content you acheived your goal but don't want to overtly celebrate it. Just a smile of satisfaction on my face.
 
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