Why don't you get out of that relationship? Just get out? If he still doesn't say nice things to you, if he still doesn't love you, or you think he doesn't, if he still hasn't changed the way he looks at other women in the street... Why do you stay? My wife would've left me in a blink of an eye if I'd done the things he still does. I'm not a saint but I really have changed everything in my life with lots of professional help, therapy (solo and together) workshops etc. I changed on the outside and on the inside: The way I think, the way I look at the world, the way I deal with feelings, with my body, my daily routines, realizing my dreams. EVERYTHING. And even that may not be enough to save our relationship. She's smashed to pieces and she keeps telling me she may quit one day if it's too hard for her. I can understand that. In the past I have been betrayed by my gf too and it feels like sh*t. Trust is everything in a relationship and it cannot grow by will power, it may grow step by step when you build up a new relationship that is significantly different from the last. Is this the case? Is this REALLY the case? I know it's hard, but you need to honestly answer this question for yourself. From what I read here, I doubt it.