Would you mind PMing me that community? Very true. I have written a paper on psychopaths and sociopaths for my forensic psychology senior seminar and they are very real people, who have no conscience. They do not feel remorse, and hurt those around them without a second thought. I've experienced them first hand, they are dangerous people even if not criminals, they do extensive damage to people in their lives. @Square79 if you want any resources about sociopaths or psychopaths I have a million books and sites compiled that I can PM you if you want to explore that further to decide for yourself whether your husband displays this disorder (I know it's not in the DSM, but psychopathic personality is a disorder in my opinion). Again no one can put labels on your husband, only you know him and can figure out if he is a sex addict or socio/psycho. At the end of the day you need to take care of you and your kids first and foremost, so stay safe!