This kind of made me wonder about the term 'trigger' and how it appears to be used differently between PA's and SO's. When I see an image or find myself feeling some way emotionally that triggers me, it makes me want to head down the rabbit hole. For my spouse, when she sees another woman being friendly to me, that triggers her and she becomes afraid/anxious/angry. So are both uses the same, but just cause us to go down different paths to 'medicate ourselves' emotionally? Or are they quite different uses of the same word?