"Just don't orgasm to porn!" - How to dissociate

Hey my dudes,

I've been grinding with this for a long time...

And I found out that I don't know how to watch porn.

Many of us seek porn with the intention of going through the PMO cycle. By scrolling, skipping and scrolling dozens of videos until we find the best scene.

But what if you watched porn like if it was a movie? Choose something more soft with some dialogues, no skipping, no masturbation, just watch it in a focused fashion. Videos which last as long a TV show episode.

Many of us may use PMO to escape our thoughts and feelings. Maybe because it makes our mind go blank through this powerful reptilian process.

But what if you could train your focus by watching porn?

Give it a thought my dudes

Don't shun away, face your enemy in the eye.

 

You guys are too blue pilled, just accept the challenge.

This is a way to dissociate porn from masturbation -> orgasm (dopaminergetic association).

 

You don't need porn to live. Otherwise it wouldn't be so exciting and you wouldn't really watch it.

You first need to dissociate porn from the cause effect which leads you to watch it, redirecting it meanwhile by making you more aroused towards something else beyond porn after watching it.

 

You watch porn (no masturbation, no orgasm, just like if was any Youtube video) and then you do something you want to focus on, by doing such you're redirecting the arousal towards something else and rewiring your reward system.

But you have to define some clear empirical tasks after doing such.

 

When we watch porn we tend to skip towards the most intense parts which are associated with orgasm. By watching those porn with lots of introduction and dialogue (all the boring and slow parts), you actually redirect your arousal towards social interaction and not just the meta-orgasm loop.

 

You become aroused by watching other people orgasm over and over.

 

You can do anything! Just don't masturbate and orgasm to porn, that's the major point I'm trying to defend.

It's a way to desensitize you to porn. Porn has never been that exciting to people who claim to be assexuals specially girls who can't really orgasm, am I making sense?

 

A mirror reaction, feedback loop.

 

The point is to gain focus and redirect arousal, because if you keep saying and believing porn is evil than you'll be obsessed about it, feel guilty forever and everytime, and this kinda crap will keep looping and consuming you forever, which is way worse.

Your mind will requery those memories as something bad and forbidden, and there we go another shitty guilt trip.

If you create lots of new memories of watching porn without really doing anything about it, than you'll become much more sex-positive about it, it's just what it is and you really didn't act upon it.

 

In a month you'll still be here, struggling to contain your unconscious compulsions and those of others as something taboo while I probably kinda forgot this place.

Leverage on your instincts, don't turn yourself against them, it's a lost battle from the start.