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Discussion in 'Dating during a Reboot' started by EnterTheMatrix, Aug 17, 2019.

  1. EnterTheMatrix

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    As I come to know that on Nofap when you get urge them it's ok to do sex with real women. Now I am confused that there is one girl who is coming close to me. I am getting these urges to fuck her. But I don't want to mix it with love as I am not sure of getting in relationship with her. And if do sex with her then I will feel like playing with her emotions or something which lead us to tears and sadness. And also it is distracting from the career. So I want to have sex when I get the urge sometimes but do not want to get in relationship. So suggest me what should I do please?
     
  2. You want to have sex with a girl, but not get into a relationship? I guess the only thing you can do is visit a brothel or get a prostitute, unless of course you somehow find a girl willing to do that. I wouldn't recommend this because they could carry STDs and such.
     
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  3. EnterTheMatrix

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    So should I rather switch back to fapping?
     
  4. blacksky98

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    Nah fam don’t, trust me there’s girls out there. That’ll fuck on the first link, you just have to make her feel comfortable, in other word you gotta have game.
     
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  5. Di.Do.555

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    Why don't you be honest with her?
    Tell her that you are not ready to be in a relation.
    If she is ok then go ahead.
     
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  6. The Winner

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    I can totally relate because the same is happening to me and I strictly decided to skip the idea of sex because I'm tired of loosing, I don't wanna loose this fight anymore now and so you!, the and main point is that this porn and this sexual behavior are controlling us and sadly we are not able to control it that's the reason you can commit and lie in order to have sex which is wrong. This will only destroy her and you. Can you see This makes us lie!! Don't lose more bro! Enough of it. You are strong let's win this fight and challenge first. We will get sex don't worry but with the one we truly love but first win this fight with the evil in you which is making you lie !
     
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  7. Put simply, sounds like you are not ready for a relationship or even casual sex. I think there's no other way to simplify this any more than that. So I would recommend that you keep up with abstaining from PMO and don't get involved with this woman.
     
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  8. EnterTheMatrix

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    So I have reset my streak and now I am on 3rd day Monk mode I will complete 90 days monk mode
     
  9. Good idea. After 90 days of no PMO at all you should have the confidence to be able to get involved with a woman and only O with them which means that you have gained the personal self-esteem and restraint that you need, but still get to enjoy having orgasms with others.
     
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  10. EnterTheMatrix

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    But still I will try karezza mode where you don't have ejaculation even with women
     
  11. Haddock

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    As if it was the only alternative... You can do both abstinence and be with her. If you don't want to be with her but only to f*** her then don't, period. I'm not saying if will prevent you from rebooting. This is just my personal opinion on how to be with women. Would you like a women who goes out with you only for sex ? I wouldn't.

    Good. Do this first. Once you've rebooted you should have a clearer view on this :)
     
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  12. blacksky98

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    Lol what kind of fuckery is that? Fam it’s 2019 girls insinuate sex more than you think. In other words most girls are okay w/ just hooking up without being in a relationship. And if my n*gga his in the right head space he can be honest and say he just wants to fuck. She may hate him for it but she’ll respect him cause he’s honest. And you’d be surprised that a lot of females are down
     
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  13. blacksky98

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    I think you should focus on yourself until your ready. Lol you didn’t finish monk mode
     
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  14. blacksky98

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    Don’t believe what society is telling you that you have to be w/ her to fuck her. That’s just being a fraud Embrace your sexual masculinity fam ✊
     
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  15. Lol, you meet a girl, and you wanna fuck her? I am not judging but this is not exactly ideal sexual behavior either.

    Focus on your career. Sex is such an insignificant part of life. Be like Tyson. :)
     
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  16. Haddock

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    I'm aware of this. The fact that this kind of behavior tends to become the norm does not mean this is a good thing.

    What do you call "society" ? I've got the impression that it is the opposite : society tells you to f*ck whoever you want whenever you can. Society is telling you it's okay to watch P, it is just that P stars should have a union or be protected in some manner.

    I think it's natural to be sexually attracted. Now we are not animals and we can handle our urges. This is what this website is about. I find it a bit strange to want to quit P but to behave like this with women.
     
  17. blacksky98

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    Yes men are visual creatures, when a guy sees a girl it takes less than a second to decide if he wants to have sex w/ her or not. Yes it is cause that’s how guys brains are wired
     
  18. Haddock

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    And so what do you do ? F*ck every time we have the opportunity ?
     
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  19. blacksky98

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    Lol yes I guess I’m 21, us young niggaz We trying to bag shordys we just trying to have fun while we young brother
     
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