Just met a guy with a 40+ year porn addiction

I hope you can nip-it in the bud.

 

Damn, look what porn addiction can do. Everyone, stay away from porn!

 

Vaya sin P no puede tener relaciones sexuales, ni el ni ella ... Que locura ... Cerebros derretidos ....

 

well to be fair and playing the devil's advocate here, at 50 few couples can have sex by themselves, so wether it's porn or pills whats the difference?

 

Yeah, that guy and his girlfriend can do whatever. You're on the right track. You're here checking things out. I recommend you set a day counter to help you be in a game where you're keeping score.

I've been looking at sh*t for over 60 years! Lots of failure, so what right do I have to give advice? I am an expert at something though, and it's exactly that: failure. I know what it looks like. If you're here, with a pledge that "it's now or never," working things out and staying with it, you'll be okay.

Best wishes.

 

Thanks for sharing

Bruh.. how can someone watch a fantasy and OKAY about it? I mean.. P is just a fantasy and not a real life. Damn.. I must be glad that in a young age like me wanna stop this bad behaviour

 

How sad it's got to be to be watching porn with your SO? Imagine watching a movie about conversations before having a chat with your girlfriend. It's just the epitome of moral depravation of our times.

 

Some people have forgotten they will die someday

 

Learn from their mistakes

A great fuel for the fire

 

You’re going to laugh when you look back and think about this at 50. My husband is having the best erections of his life and we are having better sex than ever before. My parents had a great sex life well into their 70’s along with my grandparents. Now if you’re obese or otherwise unhealthy then no you won’t have a great sex life. Porn ruins your sex life, no matter what age you are.

 

Remember there's all kinds of different porn. A pill won't influence you to be violent in sex, or have themes of beastiality or pedophilia so that's an obvious difference. Whether the couple in question watch that kind of extreme content is not the point, the point is there is a narrative - a chemical does not. Even if it's very soft, vanilla stuff the one factor that is always there is it features other people. (or to be more accurate, a machine people have programmed with sexual content*)

Yes many may have a three fold bond with porn, (not in a good way obviously) but even if it's the majority does that make it normal? What do we mean by 'fair'?

It's not about judging the couple in the OP, obviously many do have this kind of relationship, but looking at what the behavior is in itself regardless of who does it or how many do. (so obviously I am not qualifying normal as what's common, but what is functional vs. dysfunctional) Are we going to say anything goes if the deciding factor is whether they can have sex by themselves?

How did people get to this point?

Why not free your mind? And while we're at it, you might also find people attractive more on that basis than just physical appearance, though to the point from the above post you are also more likely to take care of your health and therefore generally in better shape which translates to being more physically/instinctually attractive on the average if you think better, because why be in bad health?

* In that sense it's sort of quasi-sex and at least in part mutual masturbation, if you consider the porn machine a sex toy with a cognitive function rather than just a physical one - assuming people care about making a distinction between sex and masturbation