Hi everyone just registered today. I use to follow the reddit sub nofap but it got blocked at work being labeled "explicit material" but this site isn't blocked which is a good thing. I have been struggling kind of passively with porn for a while now 15+ years but in the last couple of months that I've joined the forum and started to participate I've found it really helpful. It seems I've been dealing more with a belief issue than a sexual one. I really believed poreless human beings were beautiful, my belief of what shapes where beautiful in a women were all screwed up. My beliefs of what sexual practices were most desirable were all screwed up as well. The list does go on but the freedom of it all is that they are simply beliefs so that by God's grace when I started challenging those beliefs the desires slowly started to disappear. Lastly, it's been all or nothing for me, I've had to fully engage myself in life even the slow and boring days, the rainy and snowed in days, but I've grateful to have a wonderful wife and a child so i'm never really alone unless I want to be. Which brings me to another strange point. I'm originally from Africa and people are never alone back home. Really, they're never alone enough to develop any sexual desire not consistent with reality and with what a women would like. I believe this is the core challenge with PMO it is a world that manufactured by every individual, a perfect world that only accommodates the inventor but one that no one else can fit into. This is the dilemma, this is the challenge, this is the battle.