Just told my wife the truth

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by naderzero, Apr 21, 2019.

  1. naderzero

    naderzero Fapstronaut

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    So for our entire relationship I have been hiding the fact that I am addicted to porn from my wife. She knew that I would masturbate but she did t really know about the porn. It's been a life long struggle trying to quit this nasty habit that has really messed up my brain. I was afraid to tell her because I didn't want to be judged but when she asked I just couldn't lie again. And the turn out was that she is super supportive and told me to see her as a teammate. And I got her to set up a porn blocker on my phone. It's called detoxify. Idk if it's on Apple phones but it is on Android and I highly recommend it. I'm so glad I told her. I still feel embarrassed but I'm happy that I have extra help and support from her.
     
  2. Butterfly1988

    Butterfly1988 Fapstronaut

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    Good for you! Sounds like a strong start of honesty and partnerships
     
  3. de severn

    de severn Moderator Assistant

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    Props to you for honesty. Lying is a relationship killer.
     
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  4. SodaSuds

    SodaSuds Fapstronaut

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    Could you describe detoxify perhaps? My partner and I opted for Covenant Eyes recently which seems a bit creepy while also not quite comprehensive and easy to customize.
     
  5. DetroitRok

    DetroitRok Fapstronaut

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    Good job being honest with your wife! I told my wife just a few months ago and it was terrifying.
     
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  6. Live and Grow7

    Live and Grow7 Fapstronaut

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    Great job with the honesty and it's great having a supportive spouse. Take it from me and don't Grote too complacent or take that for granted. Keep looking to grow and overcome no matter what
     
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  7. JustOnePair

    JustOnePair Fapstronaut

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    Good going. I had to be pushed to be honest. Not the way to go. Definitely a boost to have the support from SO. You got anon support her too!
     

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