So for our entire relationship I have been hiding the fact that I am addicted to porn from my wife. She knew that I would masturbate but she did t really know about the porn. It's been a life long struggle trying to quit this nasty habit that has really messed up my brain. I was afraid to tell her because I didn't want to be judged but when she asked I just couldn't lie again. And the turn out was that she is super supportive and told me to see her as a teammate. And I got her to set up a porn blocker on my phone. It's called detoxify. Idk if it's on Apple phones but it is on Android and I highly recommend it. I'm so glad I told her. I still feel embarrassed but I'm happy that I have extra help and support from her.