Karezza technique. Share your wisdom, questions, good and bad experiences ( Possible triggers)

I encourage people to share their experiences or questions and advises on using karezza technique on this thread.

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I am in a relationship and started having sex with GF again after a break. In the beginning I wanted to continue my hard mode reboot but it turned in to soft mode reboot. I wanted to use karezza technique which also ultimately failed.

However, I haven't totally given up on it. I do want to keep away from porn and would like to avoid/minimize all risks including sex with GF which may cause a relapse.

I understand that it is already mentioned else where on this forum that rebooting in a relationship is 1000 times difficult but I wonder if Karezza technique is a reasonable compromise for both parties and would like to know the viability of it.

If you have tried Karezza technique and learned a few things from your experience please share it on this thread so that others can learn from it and possibly improve it.

 

@Kangaroo

I totally agree with you

Yes, even when I explained to her what I am trying to do but I have a feeling she doesn't fully appreciate it..I think my GF actually likes seeing me achieve Big O

Thanks for the link and that is exactly what I want out of this thread..sharing information and finding a way to explain it to our GFs and also finding a way for us master this technique. Before nofap people probably thought that rebooting for 90 days is extremely hard( and nuts) and next to impossible but a few members showed that it is possible and I am hoping some one /few people can show that it is actually in the realm of reality.

 

@Kangaroo Thanks for the link. In this video there aren't many details about how sex will energize a person/couple and prevent loss of life force. I will probably need to do more research.

 

@Dogwood Thank you so much. Those are excellent links and that is exactly what I am looking for. The stories in the first link are inspiring and gives hope that it is at least "experimentable".

 

@e_k_1 Thanks for sharing your experience.

 

@Cyrus the Virus I understand what you are saying but this is a thread under "Relationships" and the aim is to help balance people's (specifically pornography addicts) relationship needs and to make progress on being PMO free. I also added trigger warning in the title.

 

I can't really say I am practicing Karezza technique but I am staying away from O as much as possible. A month ago it was relatively easy but last couple of weeks it became a little bit difficult to hold back I am O'ing relatively quick. I feel like I have heightened sensitivity or something. Did any one experience this ?

 

It is possible that my rebooting is messing with my O but I have been away from P for a while (>100 days) and I thought I am closer to some kind of plateau physically and mentally but in reality I am not on both fronts these days..

 

I am not sure how much your wife knows about Karezza and what you are trying to achieve, it will be easier if she is supporting you. You seem very young and at that age it is difficult to control excitement but I think it will take some practice to get used to it. I have gone without ejaculating for >15 days but my girlfriend at the time knew what I was doing and she was supportive of it.