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Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by Pranav1486, Sep 12, 2017.

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  1. Pranav1486

    Pranav1486 Fapstronaut

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    is O while having sex is so bad as PM? I am trying karezza with my wife, but after 30-45 mins ejaculation happens.. I will try to take it more slowly next time, but how much longer can it go?
    thanks in advance.
     
  2. Casper0n

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    Are you fantasizing about something else? If you're using a P fantasy while doing it, then I wouldn't worry too much about the O. Isn't the goal to form a stronger bond with that special someone and move away from PM?

    You'll get some conflicting opinions. I've read some good arguments that O, even with a partner, can slow down a reboot. Personally I wouldn't worry too much about it.
     
  3. Pranav1486

    Pranav1486 Fapstronaut

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    you are right. I had two-three collapses when I was not thinking about my partner. I was feeling ashamed that point and then pull it together on partner is important.
    About other opinion O with partner slow down reboot.. I reset my counter two times last month, and now reduced my goal to no-PM. O is acceptable with her because we need children sometime :D
     
  4. Kenzi

    Kenzi Fapstronaut

    Me and my SO have sex since after Flatline... Constantly.
    We never worried about the abstinence part except to use it as a condition of relapse.
    Relapse = no sex!
    Sort of like a time out.
    He's fine.
    A year free.
    I'd watch out for the Chaser Effect.
    But you should be OK if you can handle that... It takes a bit to adjust to in the early days while it wears off.
     
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  5. STAR DUST

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    THATS ACTUALLY A GOOD TIME. THE KEY IS STOPPING WHILE YOU ARE AHEAD SO THAT YOU CAN RETAIN THAT ENERGY AND COME BACK THE NEXT DAY!
     

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