Keep Fighting! No Matter How Tough It Gets

Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by zenon27, Jun 1, 2016.

  1. zenon27

    zenon27 Fapstronaut

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    When were we meant to ejaculate looking at things like porn (two other people) outside by masturbation to fantasy and sex

    I mean if two watch porn and masturbate how is that right, how nobody ever ask that we are stalkers in that case looking at a screen as something that is worthy to faP to. I can't believe how today's era has changed.

    Japan shows this the most, they live in fantasy they made for themselves and now half of the population doesn't want to reproduce. Porn kills our appetite for anything sexual related and masturbation also kills it.

    It shift our mind and gives us brain fog, it gives us hormonal instability and that can also influence our mood swings
    I could imagine one that masturbated a lot to get some soft of disorder, or what feels like a disorder.

    We are wire plastic brains to get off to fiction or whats on screen, but barely do we process to extend that in real life, so we deluded our-self feeling something we are not. Asexual, demisexual, homosexual, all sorts of things.

    We need more society communication thats not on screen, this screens are making us emotionless and obsess addicted.
    I see kids on phones in restaurants with their friends just to type instead of talk to each other, i see them looking at a screen. What is happening to humans. More and more people are getting obsess with taking selfies they even made that stupid selfie stand product. More and more people are becoming narcissist, and some even feel they are one, media influence males mind by liking to shift them to hate gander specific, media loves to objectify women, they live for that, thats what sells. Porn is objectifying, media loves drama and hatred, media loves to control, and panties sell.

    This planet is all about manipulation and masturbation is one way of becoming weak to one's mind and body, giving in to delusions and control of the media. Porn is the most valued thing on the Internet, it bring so much $ its stupid, lets think about that for a second, why is that. Because they wanna control our craves by making us ejaculate to that what is infront of our screen, give us erection problems so we need doctor check and so on, pills sell, psychologist sell, its all money, its been nothing else, but money. Its all for the sake of money. They dont care if we have problems, we will fuck you up even more, so look at this great stuff on the Internet and become your own problem, thats what the world wants, for you to not see the truth that is right infront of us all. There is too many sheeps on this planet

    don't let the relapse get to you, keep fighting. You got this and don't give in.
    when you relapse let it be with a girl. Don't waste your energy any more. I relapse yesterday but I'm fucking sick and tired of it all. I'm done releasing my energy to nothing. I could have had kids and so much more if I didn't over-masturbated and feel sorry about myself for most of my life.

    consistent masturbation side effect
    -depression
    -fatigue
    -hormonal instability
    -dick desensitize/lack sensation
    -delay ejaculation
    -mood swings
    -low testosterone levels
    -low energy
    -tired
    -not productive
    -no morning wood, or barely but weaker
    -less horny
    -no libido (masturbating based on compulsion)
    -getting what feels like a disorder, OCD, Pure-O etc
    -erection problems
    -Brain fog, in severe case one can't even recognize his sexual preference anymore
    and so much more....
     
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  2. zenon27

    zenon27 Fapstronaut

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    doctors tell you its fine, but look its not. What fine is if you fail while listening to them just to sell their pill drugs to you. Let your body heal on its own.
     
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  3. ShotDunyun

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    This is something I just can't understand. "Scientists found out that masturbating daily is okay". WTF?! We all know that's complete bullshit. I'm sorry but I'm wearing a tinfoil hat right now, and I say that there's no way in hell that masturbation is good for the mind/body.
     
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    science also made pills and that brings money. Science = money, science wouldn't want you to spend any less so lets make more things.

    I have a girlfriend and I can speak from my own experience when i masturbate less and i see her, I feel actual craves to touch her, touch her where she wanna be touches, and I get erection by simply kiss or hugs, sometimes just holding hands. We are long distance. I can tell you if I was masturbate everyday that would kill any desire for intimacy outside if I had a crazy high sex drive/libido, but not everybody has that.
     
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    also pills, we are obsess taking pills when all we need is our body. Our body adepts best to self-healing when we don't consume it with pills from second grade. They do more wrong than right, but only later in do people see the side effects of them.
     
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  6. ShotDunyun

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    Totally agree with you. I'm sure that blue pills are selling like crazy nowadays.
     
  7. Rapparee

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    I totally agree with this, I was always wondering whether my emotional instability was linked to P and I found it is. Seriously I have real issues with it where it has affected me at moments that should have counted, like anger outbursts that could have easily been controlled over small things, even taking out my anger on people for no reason at all, just felt like picking on someone, which have led to breakdown in relations to said people. And yes I have developed a serious disorder because of it ANXIETY which has led to me having severe panic attacks and a complete inability to deal with serious emotional incidents that happen in my life.

    This disturbs me as well, I can't understand how people think this is a reasonable thing that happens?! Again its all linked to control and generation of profit, they don't give a shit about what happens to us because we are products to be expended at will. I see the same with all the kids and even people my age so disconnected from each other and unable to interact with each other in healthy face to face way, actually most prefer the screen now and cover it up with the idea they are killing time or boredom but they don't realise they are killing their brains and emotions. Certain scientists say it is the latest evolution more like devolution!!!

    P is like any other form of social control, it takes your mind away from the real issues of yourself and the rest of the world. It makes you think your gaining pleasure, even love but in actual fact it is an artificial representation of it, it alienates us from the reality because the reality is too hard to take. Its fine little sheep just take this P and leave the the rest to us. Instead of opium for the masses, its P fro the masses!!!
     
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    this was a great read, thank your for sharing how you feel about all this.
     
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    Thank you so much for posting this man! I feel a lot better having read this. I have been masturbating consisting since puberty 8+ times a day on average and I have had sex with about 14/15 different girls and almost every one of them I have found it hard to have a lasting erection with. I masturbate to the thought of them naked no problem. Or I just turn on my porn and get lost in some fantasy. But the only times i really finished i had tp imagine a porn scene like situation in my head. It makes me so depressed that this has been my life for the past 14 years. Masturbating and sleeping. Every relationship I've ever had went to shot because that's all I ever did with my time. That and work and occasionally id go it but very rarely would I do anything i would consider progress. I need to get control of this before I end up an old men with nothing to show for my life besides a bunch of crumpled up tissues and nudey pics. Any further advice you can give me will be greatly appreciated. Regardless, this post already did wonders. Thank you
     
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    First is by far the most obvious, stay away from porn or anything sexually trigger on the Internet. I'm even talking FB connection with attractive women.
    We leave in a corrupt world where men are being called sexist, but its the media thats the real sexist. They address women as nothing but body parts and beautiful faces, we adapt to this and then we watch porn and that further humiliates women. Even I once made my GF watch an adult movie with me, I had to turn it off because I felt disgusted, at myself foremost. Something inside me just didn't want us to watch it, it was suppose to be a movie for both couples as it seems many women loved it, but it was filled with men's pleasures and highly repetitive.

    Stay away porn, and stay away from pictures, only think of the girls you like. And even try make fantasy mild, use the feeling without fantasy, wire yourself to the feeling in the current present moment.

    Porn turns us men into emotionless pigs, there is far more to sex that sex alone, what is after and before it is far beyond anything sex related.
    You clearly are looking for something serious and are clearly looking to better yourself so you have the right mindset, but this will be impossible if you continue to watch porn and self-pleasure yourself on daily bases. Don't bash yourself down, I know I did, you are not a bad person, or a disgusting person. You worry to ever be that person, always remember that when on this journey. It takes discipline and many may give you weird looks if you tell them you aren't watching Porn, even women may give you weird looks but thats just because Its expected from you to watch it.

    Let the steam build up, let your sexual tension raise up, save it for that special someone. Men are rewiring to fiction, TV, media, pictures nowadays, disconnecting to real life, but don't believe women don't have this aswell. Both genders have this, just in our case we are know for having higher sex drive duo to our higher testosterone (male hormone levels) so more men watch porn, but there are women aswell

    14 years is a lot, but I've did it for near 18 years as I'm 28 years old now. I mean who didn't, you would be called a weirdo if you didn't, but lets face it, how is looking at two people having sex any less weird, you are basically a stalker getting it off to that. Do it for the sake of curiosity which was something I did with my GF but nothing more.

    Also some started to feel Asexual because of this fictional world, highly triggered scenes etc. Right now you need porn fantasy to get it off, because thats what your brain is adapted to, don't give it any of this food and it will have to adapt to anything else that is on the plate to eat. Make him starve.

    Make him starve and believe me it may take months but the journey is well worth it. You will have more energy with days going in.
    preserve it for that special person in your life, once you found her.

    If you need talk, you can make a private conversation with me, I've been in this for years and I've also developed OCD because of it, not to mention I had Delay ejaculation that made me only finish to the idea of her giving me a blowjob.
     

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