Okay so I may end up asking what may seem like a stupid question here, but I'm focusing more on the mechanics of erections and whatnot lately because I feel I focus on sex too much in general -- especially during the act because I'm nervous due to PIED and whatnot, which is bad. Anyway I was wondering if anyone is aware of themselves clenching/basically doing a kegel while becoming erect. I imagine one probably does before they're about to ejaculate as they try to hold back but is the clench normal while you're trying to get or hold an erection for the duration of intercourse? Is it even normal to realize when you're clenching, or is the clench a subconscious thing? I think I consciously clench during the arousal process which I feel tends to almost short-circuit things in a way. Anyone else had this problem?