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Ladies can tell when you've been fapping

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by returnOfTheKing, May 31, 2017.

  1. returnOfTheKing

    returnOfTheKing Fapstronaut

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    I don't know how or why ladies were given this superpower, but I think a lot of guys know what I'm talking about.

    A barista who was, at best, indifferent (leaning toward contempt) was suddenly, now seeing me since I've had the tiniest exposure to nofap superpowers, very excited to see me and began asking questions well outside the range of where we'd been previously socially.

    Of course there could be a million factors, but it would be hard to discount the impact of NoFap. Then I stepped outside to stretch, get eye-blasted by a girl walking past. My approach anxiety was in full swing today and I didn't capitalize on the attention but it's always fun to get it. It will be interesting to see how far NoFap will take my game before I hit a wall and have to apply additional effort to get over it.

    To that end, I would literally rather retain and gain superpowers than P, M, or even O with a partner. That head space has been a game changer in itself.
     
  2. LivinginRecovery

    LivinginRecovery Fapstronaut

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    I 'Like' this post. I've run out of Likes mate. I totally agree with you. Women do notice. I'm hardly the best looking guy in the world but I've had some mad keen looks in the last 3 or so weeks.
     
  3. Billy the GOAT

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  4. Strength And Light

    Strength And Light Fapstronaut

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    I like to think that they aren't superpowers, they are your normal abilities without the kryptonite of PMO.
     
  5. Rockhold

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    Normal state, super, it doesn't matter. Power is power.

    I haven't approached ladies yet though, even when I fapped I had people eye fucking me. Sometimes it's super annoying when you like don't want to be eyeballed. My paps say I look like a movie star, wtf?

    I haven't hit the streets though, my ass still hurts falling from my skateboard.

    Perhaps I will pick up chicks after my 90 days, maybe, I am thinking about other things more, like obtaining sweet cash. Lot's and lot's of BUCKS.
     
  6. returnOfTheKing

    returnOfTheKing Fapstronaut

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    Power is power. Exactly. Nothing wrong with making that $$. Go get 'em. I've been practicing approaching for years with limited success, probably bc I had a huge handicap of fapping. Excited to see how it goes in a week, month, year.

    And yes getting eye-blasted takes some getting used to. But then you get hooked on it and you're like wow this is so much better than porn.


     
  7. Rockhold

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    Whats limited success? Like zero? Well that sucks, especially doing it for years. Conversation skills is important, I need to work on that also, like I never really made approaching into an art.
     
  8. PasterofMuppets

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    Part of it is that you feel better therefore you are more sure of yourself, part is a placebo.
     
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  10. Buzz Lightyear

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    The point is not whether there really are superpowers, but that it feels like you have them when on no PMO. It is pointless to ask metaphysical and ontological questions when talking about masturbation and abstinence. Stick with the phenomena and feeling.

    So yes, it sure as hell feels like I got these superpowers when I'm not playing with myself. Feels like I'm playing with the universe instead... and maybe I am!
     
  11. Is it possible that its not black magic? It's just simply you having a greater confidence or just you start to notice them more noticing you? That it's always been that way but you have a greater acknowledgment of your surrondings, Bc of nofap?
     
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  12. returnOfTheKing

    returnOfTheKing Fapstronaut

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    Anything's possible. I wouldn't consciously rate my confidence as high in general or higher than it used to be but maybe it is and I don't know it.

    Also I've actually seen none of that sort of thing I wrote about since that day. Must be hit or miss.

     
  13. Beopus

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    I can try to confirm with sources

    Two people have told me they can see when people have had sex or orgasmed earlier in the day

    fking weird
     
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  14. The Consigliere

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    I must say I can agree with this. My experiences with girls have been better on NoFap. It's like they are actually more open to talk then when you are just PMO-ing and thinking about girls as objects and not people.
     
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  15. Truth has been revealed..
    #peace
     
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  16. I think the average woman has no idea if you've been fapping or not. But they can tell if you're confident or not.

    Here's a video of a woman being interviewed on the subject:
     

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