Legalize suicide?

Nosotros los suicidios vivimos gratis. Si siempre esperas la muerte, ¿qué miedo puede venir del hecho de que golpea a tu puerta? Comienzo a creer que existe el problema. Es tan anhelado que se esconde. Gracias
@pezzy⚡️

 

do not. You're not killing someone so it's not murder. you do not hurt anyone

 

The only other thing I will mention is that a lot of people call suicide selfish, and I can relate as to why they say that. While they may have been preparing for who knows how long to end their life, they don't realise or maybe even care how it will impact friends, family, coworkers, and everyone around them once they're gone.

My brother killed himself a long time ago and because he felt it was right to do so he fucked up my family, we got torn apart, and I haven't been the same since. He put us through such agony trying to find him and all the worrying I went through. What made it even worse is since he made up his mind about doing it he was at peace in his mind, so he treated me better and we actually got along really nice the month before which made it even worse.

While I loved him dearly I can't forgive him for what he did.

 

Wow, sorry for your loss and that you had to experience that, Sarah. I’ve apologized to my brothers for my attempt because I saw how much pain and sadness it caused them.

 

That's okay, it's nobody else's fault but his. I know I including his parents didn't list to him when he would make comments before, but if he truly reached out and said his full feelings maybe this would of been different. He was way more quiet than me and would hide his emotions even more so I never knew.

While obviously I would still rather have him alive right now, he changed the course and direction in my life to something better oddly enough, it has also made me hardened seeing him die to even consider contemplating suicide anymore.

While I have to live with my pain and who knows if it'll ever go away, I just know I couldn't leave my SO and dad like that, and I think unless somebody goes through something tragic like that they won't understand in that way.

The dreaded "note" on the table is something you never want to see in your lifetime.

 

Si soy sincero, no lo he visto desde ese momento. Lo siento, Sarah. Pensé que el dolor no era tan fuerte, en mi caso, mi familia sabe lo que quiero. No sé si al final las cosas cambian.

 

It's like when somebody gets murdered, it shocks as well as saddens family members, friends, and everyone around them. But suicide affects them on an even deeper level than that in a different way, it's emotional scarring as well as a feeling of betrayal, my brother was over 10 years ago and I still feel the pain and trauma he caused.

 

yes. The question floats because he did it. I'll ask myself that question every day, because I want to do it, maybe that will help me. thanks Sarah

 

They come and go but when my depression gets higher than usual I have dark thoughts, the difference is i dont act or engage in them. Just know if you ever do kill yourself that there's other people's lives you will undoubtedly mess up and end up traumatising, you may rationalise nobody will miss you or some other excuse except it's not true.

It takes a great deal of courage, strength, and effort to keep going when you're suicidal, and honestly suicide itself is the cowardly, quick, and easy solution when there's so much more to life than yourself.

 

the word coward is good for this. I also recognize that he is selfish, I suppose that if you have ever thought about it, you know how difficult it is to deal with existing.

 

Thank you for sharing all of that, @Sarah Walker. I'm so sorry you had to go through that.

 

oh Bullying is such a terrible thing. It is a great trigger for truth.

 

To be very clear, nobody said that admitting you have suicidal thoughts, or having depression, is cowardly. Of course not! That's absolutely courageous! In some cases, choosing suicide over choosing to tell someone how you feel and seek help, would be easier. It is a more cowardly choice than having the strength and courage to do what you've done.

 

I had a friend of the family commit suicide almost 17 years ago in a domestic dispute with his wifes famly that spun out of control, I can say it was one of the hardest funerals I have ever been to and it effected a lot of people deeply even to this day, everyone saying what a waste