So I joined this after I searched in google "how long it takes to have a wet dream and found this site as the number 1 hit." This girl I am dating and I went on a no sexual activity for lent challenge. So I did not make it nearly as far as her. She says she still hasn't masturbated at this point but I don't believe her. I is difficult especially since we had sex before March 1st. I made it to march 8th and had a wet dream but I'm finding that a lot of people have had wet dream a lot slower. This happened a few times at a summer camp i worked at where I could rarely find time to masturbate especially when I was usually sleeping in a room with 8+ kids. I found it would take less than a week for me to have a wet dream then.I have only ever gone about 9 days without masturbating. also curious if any males are trying this for lent as well? how long did they make it? Are you still going? I know this isn't a religious site but I am curious. Neither of us have had sex yet either.