Let's do a 10-days-Challenge. Who wants to join?

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Jodo Kus, May 5, 2017.

Most of us (I hope) will accomplish this Challenge in 3 days. So how do you want to continue?

Poll closed May 19, 2017.
  1. Let's do another one! Another 10-days-Challenge please.

    20 vote(s)
    57.1%
  2. I'm ready for a longer Challenge now.

    6 vote(s)
    17.1%
  3. I'm on a longer streak anyway. The length in days is not so important for me.

    2 vote(s)
    5.7%
  4. Thank you and goodbye.

    0 vote(s)
    0.0%
  5. 10 days were so hard for me, I need a controlled relapse before I'll take on another Challenge

    2 vote(s)
    5.7%
  6. People here have many different numbers of days. Therefor let's just be there for each other

    5 vote(s)
    14.3%
  1. The Errol

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    Day 4.
    Things started to go odd. Last night feel a very strong urge. Tried to solve it by positive thinking and rationally, however didn't diminish. Today woke up kind anger, frustrated and ansious. I will to the gym to release the rage and try to calm down. Don't want to see my GF to not relapse neither to have more depressive or ansious thoughts.

    Keep moving. Tomorrow will be at the half, so it's just motivating.
     
  2. The Errol

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    I feel the same bro. So don't let the sexual though govern your mood. I'm starting to feel horn too, but instead of leading me those feelings, I just remember how many guys here feel the sAmerican and they really need other guys to stay motivated.

    I'm started to feeling a kind of abstinence syndrome.
     
  3. _overcomer_

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    Hello, I have strong urge right now :(

    but I don't want to fall back!
     
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  4. Strong_Again

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    I'm in!!
    Edit: late It seems...
     
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  5. TheDarkKnight

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    I want to join this challenge. I feel like I have relapsed a bit and would like to start from basics again. So doing little challenges like these to keep me on track.
     
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  6. The Errol

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    I'm in the same ship, bro! Just think that you bear a big responsability to yourself. When thoughts or urges about sex pops up, think in other thinks. Start to focus in other things. If you feel it in night, this can be really uncomfortable, but it's better to being awake rather than being rolling in the bed, and thus, having more urge.

    Get out, try to make some exercise or take a cold shower. Refuse to fear and to give up!
     
  7. Jodo Kus

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    @GnosisToday @Woodchester @Strong_Again @TheDarkKnight
    Welcome!

    When the pressure gets too high 2 things might happen:
    a) I can't handle stress and emotional challenges anymore
    b) I relapse with porn

    But I see no problem with jerking off from time to time. Sex would be better of course...
    The main thing is that I don't use porn or subs.

    Right. And when you talk/discuss with yourself you should be /go somewhere where you can't relapse, if that is possible. Cause changes are you loose that inner debate.
    We all know this weakness
    It's not because we have lost our reason, our dreams, goals, dignity and selfrespect. It's because at some point the addiction predominates our reason.
     
    Last edited: May 11, 2017
  8. Will_power_now

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    It's just a bad habit! It's like a drug! You don't need it. It's bad for you! Keep strong by saying no and reap the rewards later! You will feel the advantages very soon! Deny yourself to have fun right now and you will be a successful man.
     
  9. KrmGrn

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    Day 2 for me. I notice more energy and mental clarity.
     
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  10. Jodo Kus

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    This is the SPONGE for YOUR NEGATIVE THOUGHTS. Thoughts of relapsing for example. The sponge is big enough to absorb every thought you want it to. Give your negative thoughts (and emotions) to the sponge!

    The trick is to give those really toxic thoughts away immediately. DON'T THINK THEM! Give'em to the sponge.

    Actually you can give ANY thought to the sponge.
    When you've got rid of enough thoughts you finally can do something.
     
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  11. ethan.s

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    Day 1 done! Feeling positive about this go
     
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  12. Willltochange

    Willltochange Fapstronaut

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    Day 5!
    This is a great starter for me. I needed a small goal to set before going on a long journey. I hope i can continue as long as i could. Emergency page helped me stop the urge a lot
     
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  13. Powell

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    On day 4, still with you guys. Todays been a bit of a challange. My brains tries to trick its self into justify porn use like "you're doing good so why not reward yourself with some porn" or thinking " maybe a little porn will take of the egde" but I know it always ends in a self loathing binge.

    Reading threw your post has helped, stay strong brothers.
     
  14. Fap_Doc

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    I slept with a woman last night. I tried to resist, but I gave in to the temptation. I'm out of this challenge. All the best guys.
     
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  15. Santilel

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    I was able to make 2 days but this last 2 days I didnt log in and I wasn`t strong enough:(, so I am starting again right now and telling you guys about my journey daily, it really helps a lot.
     
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  16. Powell

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    What wrong with having sex? You can't quite this challenge because you got laid.
     
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  17. Skywalker.89

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    Hello all. I'm new here. I haven't pmo'd since some time last week (can't recall exact day but I'll just say since Friday). I'm in it for the long haul.
     
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  18. Fap_Doc

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    Man, I'm doing this challenge because of sex. I'm addicted to women and sex.
     
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  19. Jodo Kus

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    So how do you feel about it now? Do you think it was a good decision? Have you enjoyed yourself? How was it for the woman? What does this relapse mean to you?
     
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  20. Fap_Doc

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    It was intense, all the SMSing, calling, pictures sent, flirting at work, talking, meeting up, the sex (wow), as soon as I cum I remember my addiction and I hate everything. I can't get it under control. A relapse to me is having sex with a woman. I've cut it down by alot, but it's still a major problem. I'm not even sure I can't do this at this point. I thought this site would help me but nothing has worked.
     

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