Letters to Cake; she's in a crisis

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  1. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Dear Cake,

    Grief seems like such a small word in comparison to how it actually feels.
    You're grieving your marriage & you're grieving the impending loss of the only constant you've known.

    There's no rhyme or reason as to how you are able to see the magic in grief. The deeper it goes, the more joy you will find.

    I can't go on. I will go on.

     
  2. RightEffort

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    Exactly - The deeper it goes the more we realize we are un-fuck-with-able.

    Once we get our heart broken a few times and we discover we always have a choice to choose love and forgive our enemies a whole new world opens up.

    That's why Rumi says “The wound is the place where the Light enters you.”
     
  3. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Oh, it's just a place where I speak freely about shitty, arrogant, & juvenile behaviors you porn addicts tend to exhibit :)
     
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  4. BravelyKegger

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    ohh sounds fun, tho i never would have guessed that based on the posts.
     
  5. Doesn't sound like you've read all her posts yet then. She's plenty of bad info about us to go around. Best to just keep quiet, read, and learn.
     
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  6. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Gosh, I sound like a hag :emoji_sweat_smile:

    The trigger button you guys have should link directly back to my journals.
    I'd never touch my shit again if I was an addict reading my journal.

    I thank you guys for letting me hang around; I feel like I was adopted by the most dysfunctional but interesting family ever :)
     
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  7. Kenzi

    Kenzi Fapstronaut

    Don't mind the boys.
    You are fine here
     
  8. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    I never have.
    Thx for saving me a seat ;)
     
  9. Whoops I corrected my typo!

    I think your journal should be required reading for those seriously working on quitting!
     
  10. I appreciate you’re sharing as I wrote before. It’s unfortunate that this whole thing seems to fly over some men’s heads.

    This sad situation she’s in can happen to anyone, so stop the porn! Such a simple message but so many of us are too damn stupid to get it.
     
  11. Max Fisher

    Max Fisher Fapstronaut

    It's such a big community that lots of people on here aren't here for the same reasons. I'm not saying it's good or bad but tons of guys just want get better at picking up chicks. I guess getting your shit together and not watching porn will definately help that but it's not really the "I'm an addict and I need to get into some type of recovery" mindset that other people have. Meh, what are you going to do?
     
  12. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Dear Cake,

    The irony is not lost on you; these floods would test Noah. Literally. It's flooding.
    Torrential downpours that come in waves.

    Because you question everything, you asked yourself if this was God offering to cleanse you of this years bummer of a poker hand. He was clearly saying hey girlfriend, I'm going to wash away all the hurt.

    You are drenching wet & don't know if you just wiped away snot or rain, but holy fuck.

    You've been awakened again. Cleansed. By the Holiest. He told the universe to give Cake the best finale she's ever seen & Cake heard Him calling.

    Cake never misses appointments with God. Especially when there's a monsoon involved.

    Fuck a cold shower
     
  13. Trappist

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  14. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    What a profound compliment to give a person.

    I sound like a derp in my own head.

    Thank you.
     
  15. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Dear Cake,

    Your husband's sex addiction was the best Goddamn thing that has ever happened to you.

    The destruction it caused left your future looking desolate & grey.

    You love life; a colorful one.

    Do you suppose you will ever get the answer to where all of this strength comes from?
    Share the secret, if you do.

    Welcome back, Cake
     
  16. Kenzi

    Kenzi Fapstronaut

    I wish you the happiest new year.
    And a peaceful few days on the way out of 2018
     
  17. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Thank you, K :)
    Same to you
     
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  18. Trappist

    Trappist Fapstronaut

    I’ve heard something like that,
    Maybe,
    Which sustained me when I heard it
    At SAA mtgs.

    The promises from AA:

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    “We will intuitively know how to handle situations, which used to baffle us,”
     
  19. Trappist

    Trappist Fapstronaut

    Thought of this song.
    Sweet lyrics.
     
  20. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Well, thx
    Now I'm going to need a redo of crazy cake standing in the pouring rain with this in the background.
    Will you hold the boombox for me?
     
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