Letters to Cake; she's in a crisis

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  1. 0111zerozero11

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    You're damn right I do; thx to seeing the strength of you & others :emoji_kissing_heart:
     
  2. I know it's harder for you than I can ever know. But you have been an inspiration to me and others. An inspiration for us guys to quit and continue to abstain and an inspiration to other women to not cave in. Thanks for sharing your experience.
     
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  3. 0111zerozero11

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    Then this makes my journey worth it :)
    I pray for all of you struggling/learning/falling/growing, every single day.
    Thank you, sincerely
     
  4. 0111zerozero11

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    Dear Cake,

    1. The Law of Mentalism; exists w/out dependency on something.

    I hold it true that thoughts are things
    Endowed with bodies, breath and wings,
    And that we send them forth to fill
    The world with good results or ill.
    That which we call our secret thought,
    Speeds to the earth's remotest spot,
    And leaves its blessings or its woes,
    Like tracks behind it as it goes.
    We awaken in another
    Just the thoughts our minds contain.
    If we're kind, we win their kindness,
    If we hate, they hate again.
    We pass on to brother mortals
    The vibrations of the soul,
    And the knowing ones receive them,
    As they search from pole to pole.
    We build our futures thought by thought,
    Or good or bad, and know it not
    Yet so the universe is wrought.
    Thought is another name for Fate,
    Choose, then, thy destiny and wait
    For love brings love and hate brings hate.
    -
    Victor Segno
     
  5. 0111zerozero11

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    Dear Cake,

    2. The Law of Magnetism; co-exists with previous law, as well as tomorrow's law.

    Fascinating to watch your children try to figure out why magnets stick to certain things and not others. If not for their obvious toddler age, you'd be inclined to believe they've hit the winning jackpot at one of Las Vegas' finest slots when that tiny magnet magically sticks to something else, and stays.
    Their eyes light up & the 'look mommy, it works here' are in full force. They are in awe of magnets; polarity.

    The people you haven't seen in forever but happen to randomly bump into, are your magnets. The strangers you interact with & feel compassion for & the compassion is reciprocated; magnets.
    Everyone in your life is here based on what you have projected into the universe.
    Your thoughts are the command center of your magnet. Keep them positive & free of doubt.
     
  6. Kenzi

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    Magnets are funny things tho....
    Mostly they stick together ...
    But remember dear cake, the same two magnets will repel each other.
    All you have to do is flip them over.
    Hope you are having a great Monday.
    :)
     
  7. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    You too, sweet girl :emoji_kissing_heart:
     
  8. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Dear Cake,

    3. The Law of Unwavering Desire

    Purity of mind, body, & soul leaves you with no ego, only the now.
    Laughing until you cry is an unplanned, impulsive reaction from a pure insight. It's different than crying from emotions. Emotions are led by thoughts.
    It's normal to sometimes let what we desire be based on emotions but it never ends well; ever.
    It's possible to be conscious of these emotions while separating the stories that encompass them from your awareness in the now.

    You're doing good, Cake; head up, shoulders back, & be aware of your now.
     
  9. Fallensoldier1

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    Cake, once again I’m so very sorry about your mom and your marriage. I just want you to know that this journal has helped me though. To go through and read this and see things from a SO’s point of view, is a much needed perspective that I know we should all read and talk about. You are a VERY strong woman. You are special, your kids look up to you. And thank you for helping many of us here as well. Keep your head up and keep going!
     
  10. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Thank you, friend :)
    That means a lot
     
  11. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Dear Cake,

    4. The Law of Paradoxical Intent

    Self-contradiction is simply not being logical. When logic isn't taking place, doubt, fear, shame, etc creep in & leave you desperate.
    A process of anabolic and catabolic undertakings that control you.
    Vice & Virtue.

    Man is an embodied paradox, a bundle of contradictions
    Charles Caleb Colton
     
  12. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Another day of going out, doing what I do, by myself. Got startled by a squirrel, but other than that, I was feeling very much alive and at peace with myself today.
    Fall has allowed me to shed what was holding me back; winter, is fast approaching. Things get frail in winter. I will not be one of those things.
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  13. Beautiful pics, I'm glad you get the happiness by what you like to do & it's bettering your mood as well :)
     
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  14. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Gracias G
     
  15. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Dear Cake,

    5. The Law of Synchronization/Harmony

    The way you live = how much harmony is in your energy.

    When your soul & the universe synchronize, things like tonight will happen.
    What an effin trip.
    Transmutation of energy.

     
  16. Strength And Light

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    Boom!
     
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  17. Strength And Light

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    So funny. I was reading the newest entries newest-to-oldest for whatever reason. I read the one I quoted above and thought, “Such a good post. Cake ‘gets it’. I should follow her NoFap profile.” So I did. Then I read the next post about how strangers with reviprocating compassion are your magnets....right after I connected to your profile, like a magnet.
     
  18. Max Fisher

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    Partly truth partly fiction...
     
  19. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    Phenomenal, isn't it?
    Hope your wife & family are holding up as well as possible..kids & I pray for y'all every night
     
  20. 0111zerozero11

    0111zerozero11 Fapstronaut

    SEE
     
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