Loneliness and sexual temptation

Discussion in 'Loneliness' started by Yeshua My King, Apr 29, 2019.

  1. Yeshua My King

    Yeshua My King New Fapstronaut

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    Hey everyone,
    This is the first day on my journey. I'm a 28 year old man, virgin, and single. I find that the more lonley I become, the easier it is to fall into temptation.
    Obviously I have my good moments and bad moments like everybody else. I tend to find myself more specifically lonely, when I'm around friends who have spouses or in public places with a lot of women. I understand that I tend to objectify women in a sexual manner due to the fact of my addiction to pornography and masturbation ( which drives me into a depression due to my guild of what I've just done).
    My two questions are can anybody relate to this? And does it actually sound like I'm lonely, what does it sound like I just want sex? I battle with this in my head daily.
     
  2. ClickClickBoom

    ClickClickBoom Fapstronaut

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    Welcome friend

    We all have our story but most of us forget the we are the author, you have the pen and paper in your hands, its up to you to write your story.You should take this opportunity to ponder what is right and what is wrong in your life right now, what can be changed for the better and what doesn't need to change. You must become your own biggest critique improve yourself, motivate yourself become a better version of yourself.
    I don't know your background but I can tell you this, cut smoking and alcohol they serve no use to you, fix your diet, educate yourself on what is healthy and unhealthy, cut processed foods out, go for wholesome foods instead (its is huge)exercice is fundamental it will help you in basically every aspect of your life , find new hobies, learn new skills, this will also alow to know people outside of your social circle, making friendships is important.
    My point is there are alot of small things can do that will help you in the long run, Rome wasn't build in a day, its a process it takes time, you will fall, you will Pick yourself back up and most importantly you will learn and you will become a better human being.

    Dont... Women are human beings just like you and me they have there own trials and hardships they laught they cry and they have dreams and hopes just like you and me, respect them, value them, but dont let them treat you like a doormat and don't put them on a pedestal.

    We are men. We are visual creatures, we want sex that is a fact thats how we function, but sex isn't everything in life.
    But in the end it all comes down to what you really want, and how hard your willing to fight and sacrifice to achieve what you want out of life.


    Hope this was of use to you.


    Best wishes,
     
  3. Tao Jones

    Tao Jones Fapstronaut

    Welcome to Day 1! Why are you quitting PMO? What do you hope to gain?

    We all want companionship and we have a natural drive for sex. So it is likely you want both! All perfectly normal. The trick is to realize the truth: You are never alone (Yeshua is always with you) and sex is meant to be preceded by self-control (a fruit of the Spirit). So, as in all things, Christ is our answer and our sufficient supply.

    I am praying for you and cheering you on, and I hope we can continue to talk as you move forward.
     
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