Loneliness is killing me

Hey Libertadwess,

You're not alone.

Where have you traveled to or would like to go ?

I went to Nepal a few years ago and it changed my life massively. Such a huge contrast from what id been used to. Mind blowing. These days I tend to visit European countries more.

Keep the faith my friend

 

you just gave amazing inspiration to travel

 

Hey Libertadwess! Im sorta similar to your situation with not having really any friends and all. But anyways thats cool that you traveled to the u.k its one of my dreams to go and travel there. How was it what did you see were did you go, did you go to nandos restaurant, I hear it great. As for me Ive always love to travel more out of the U.S the only place outside of the U.S is Tijuana lol. Ive traveled alot but only in the states such as NYC, Washington D.C, Arizona, Oregon, San Fransisco, San Diego.

 

Thanks guys. Something im realizing is that the best antidote to loneliness is to find someone or group of people who feel lonely/isolated and help them to feel connected. It immediately lifts my own feelings of disconnection and loneliness in my experience.

Jpr : I have always wanted to visit the United states. There are so many beautiful places in your country to visit.

Libertadwess: Where are you from originally ?

 

Yeah thats true but at times it can be difficult even finding a person or group of people to relate to cause as for myself I dont really reach out to others probably because im afraid maybe of the rejection or just being judged. Im the type of person who can be really out going or just the really shy person who doesn't talk it depends if i click with that person or not.
Plus you should go its so nice there are so many types of terrain so to you can be in a desert in an hr and be at the beach in another to the forest etc i love living here my next on my to do list is hawaii, Florida, and then puerto rico. Also what country do you come from?? p.s congrats on 74 days on not pmoing im on day 1 going on day 2 plus how did you put that bar up i dont know really how to do that thanks

 

Yeah thats so cool ugh you so lucky on day though im going cause I love traveling, seeing new people and places it really awesome . Also I appreciate that I will hit you up if i need to talk or anything same goes for you to we got to stick together to overcome pmo and whatnot

 

Yeah me too with me its tough time after time putting yourself out there trying to be nice and all and in the end being rejected its not fun. Im not sure if its the way i act maybe to overly open and friendly, im not sure tbh But when i am accepted its really fun, I just try to be as optimistic as I can.

 

Hi Libertawess! A late welcome but still... Welcome! I am also a new here and just seeing how many of us face the same challenge has comforted me. Reason being that this community shows we are not alone. Together we can motivate and encourage one another. Something that is generally hard to find in a crowded room!

I share in your experience of laziness, unproductivity and a general lack of confidence as a result of PMO. It took me very long to admit this.

But here we all are. Thousands admitting and willing to do something about our addiction! That's a positive!

So well done on taking a step in the right direction. I have only travelled in my country South Africa. But it will be interesting to hear about your travelling exploits!

 

I dont really use my twitter all that much but i will do that thanks.

 

Dude, you're not alone but unlike you I enjoy being alone by myself because I find people, in general, can be annoying sometimes. I don't like crowded areas.

Like you I like to take photographs and videos of everything and edit it to one video. Just a hobby I picked up by watching VLOGS. I also skate and that's where the majority of the videos and photos I get.

Cheer up. It's nice to be alone, at least for me.

 

Going through the same thing here. I've spent two months shutting myself alone in my room playing video games, only heading outside to get food. To this day I feel uncomfortable being around other people and striking up a conversation with someone new feels tough for me.

The main thing I decided for myself, was just to adopt a "F*ck It" mentality and just dive headfirst into any new idea or situation. Consequences? Where I'm going we won't need consequences.

Seriously speaking though, I've decided to accept that there will be sad and lonely times along with the happy and fun times. No use moaning about it, it happens. And move on with my life. Helps me get by every day, sometimes it's tough but eh it could be worse.

 

If you click on my counter bar it will take you to a form where you can make one. I think you need a gmail account to set it up. Good luck