I just turned 24 few days ago. It has been 4 years since i am trying to quit PMO and sommetimes i got good streaks like a couple of 60 days and 120 days one time. First when I hit these streaks i was confident again, proud of myself but simple things like i s failing in a test and being rejected put me into a deeper hole than i was before because throwing away the results of my struggle. I mean life is not a candy-color sky everyday and the weakness and obsession about PMO simply makes it harder to deal with bitter experiences. I feel unconfident about approaching, having a deep and strong hold in me when it comes to girls. It takes me almost blood to give a try out even after looking at the mirror and seeing that i have a good appearance. The clock ticks, i still relapsing during these 4 years and the obsession seems to not cease or even leave me be a man. Worst thing is seeing other guys so confident doing this as an ordinary thing (because it is!) and i still better in memorizing some random scene i saw 10 years ago. Please guys gimme some advice!