Long distance relationship

Hey guys!
So I have been saying this guy for about 6 months. We had met on the cam site I was working on but I immediately knew I really liked this guy. So we took it off the cam site and started talking to one another on Skype, Facebook things like that .I quit doing cam things after he asked me to be his girlfriend because it made him uncomfortable. No problem there. So 3 months later I fly to New Zealand to meet him and it was so much fun. As soon as I stepped off the plane and saw him I was totally head over heels. Until we got to the bedroom that is. Now I have been sexually attractive before but he hasn't been. And he wasn't honest with me about it .But I didn't expect the first time to go the way it did. He could not get hard. We tried everything. At first I felt really bad about myself like maybe he didn't actually like my body, and things like that. But then he told me he thinks he has PIED. And I felt so bad for him. My heart seriously ached. Being 20 years old and not being able to get hard. So we decided we would still try it but it never happened the 10 days I was there .Since I left he hasn't watched any porn. It'll be 90 days in 20 days when he comes to visit me in America. He relapsed once after about 20 days. I was sad about it, but as an ex drug addict I tried to be understanding. I went to treatment for my problem though. So fast forward he hasn't PMOd for 40 days. And then he relapsed again. This time it really hurt me.. I broke up with him but I don't want to. He is still coming in June but I am wondering if he has any chance of having his PIED fixed? I have tried everything I can to help him. I have made Reddit posts and people just bashed me for wanting to have sex with him. But sex is normal and healthy between two people who love one another. And I know this is hard for him to get through, but a long distance relationship is hard enough to do. Also people on Reddit said it wasn't the best thing for him since we talk over the computer everyday. I just don't know what to do. I'm sad, confused, and hurting. Any one else experience anything like this?

 

Hey man . Yeah, I'm used to getting bad about the endwh canning thing. I only did it for any a month. And quit .SPAM REMOVED (spam code #001) - REPORT TO MODERATION no problem. So no, I don't think I have an addiction to it. I just really needed money at the time. But as far as our relationship goes. I know there isn't another one like it or I can understand why it is very frawned upon. Thanks for giving your honest advice. I really appreciate it.