So hi, I'm posting here for some advice hopefully. So sum up quickly, I met a girl the start of this year in a gaming community I was in, we hit it off, and have gotten together (Officially last month, but unofficially since the start of Feb). We only made it official last month when I took the plane flight to go meet her to see if things were the the same in person, I'm 25 and she's 28, so we kinda wanted to know if we felt the same IRL as we both want to work to a future and didn't want to waste the time and realise it wouldn't work (neither of us are getting younger). Now, the usual long distance thing, we talk everyday, and use to have phone sex nearly every day. Pictures would be shared, and we'd both get off listening to the other. Though after issues I've had before with getting off during sexual interactions and essentially taking forever (read more here - link here), I decided to try reboot and abstain from porn as well as masturbating. I still get photos from her, and listen to her get off while being extremely frustrated myself, but I figured this would ever help me later on when we're together to help me get off and to pretty much re-wire my brain to less my hand and more to her. I'm more just looking for advice, I'm currently 15 days in to not masturbating and as such, not orgasming. I see her next month, for 2 weeks (which is going to be busy). Just wondering if I'm going about it right, or if anyone has any tips for me as I'm not sure if I'm going about this right. Thanks peeps, Peace out.