Looking for a serious AP Hard Mode

Discussion in 'Accountability Partners' started by NewLifeForGood86, Oct 6, 2021.

  1. NewLifeForGood86

    NewLifeForGood86 Fapstronaut

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    Hi everybody!
    I’m a 35 year old male (not in a relationship at the moment). I’ve been a member of nofap for 4 years now (active on the website only in periods, mostly in the first couple of years).

    With the help of Nofap, among other things, I successfully beat my porn addiction, and have been porn free for the past few years.

    But I’m still struggling with masturbation, although it’s much less than before I started nofap. I want to get rid of it, and need a serious AP (male) who would like to do a hard mode no PMO with me with the goal of going to 3 months clean.
    But I just feel it’s too difficult on my own to stay away from masturbation until and unless I get in a relationship (I’m looking for marriage).

    I’m also religious and spiritual, so I would appreciate if my AP is also at least a little spiritual minded (doesn’t matter which religion he adheres to, if any religion at all.)

    It should also be someone who can write with me around once to twice a week and respond whenever I need support. Similarly, we must be dedicated and honest about the accountability to each other.
    I’m open to more than one AP.

    I hope someone out there can help me.
     
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  2. SergioCon

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    hi maybe i help, i'm on my first proper week of hm but have done some good streaks before, and now i'm up for the challenge once more, another iteration of the same thing maybe you can call it - my current plan is to do a workout about 4x per week and only use cold water to wash, except once a week - sauna/hotbath.
    What disciplines do you intend to apply?
     
  3. taintgrinder123

    taintgrinder123 New Fapstronaut

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    I'm not sure what Hard Mode means please explain
     
  4. NewLifeForGood86

    NewLifeForGood86 Fapstronaut

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    Hard mode is no Porn, masturbation or orgasm in any form. This means that you can’t even edge (any activity even edging on to any of the above mentioned activities). Similarly, you can’t have sex, even if you’re in a relationship.
     
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  5. SergioCon

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    Gracias @NewLifeForGood86 that pretty much explains it
    @taintgrinder123 - so it pretty much means no compromises, you do it fully, no cutting corners, its hard, it is what it is.
     
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  6. Josh9898

    Josh9898 Fapstronaut

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    Can I be a member of this group? If yes how do we communicate
     
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  7. NewLifeForGood86

    NewLifeForGood86 Fapstronaut

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    Sure :). Just write in this thread, and I will try my best to reply to you. Write about yours streak and your experiences here (what works and doesn’t work etc.). I would be grateful if others also make an effort to reply to any posts in this thread.
     
  8. Josh9898

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  9. col123

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    Hello. I'm 35 and also looking for an AP. If anyone is interested please pm me
     
  10. SergioCon

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  11. NewLifeForGood86

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    Hi everyone
    I’ve already gotten myself more than one AP, so right now I won’t be able to take more APs. I thank you all for reaching out :emoji_pray:
     
  12. taintgrinder123

    taintgrinder123 New Fapstronaut

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    Thank you very much
     

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