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Looking for hypnosis guidance/cleansing.

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Deleted Account, Mar 21, 2019.

  1. In addition to watching porn, I've gotten into a lot of hypnosis based porn (dealing with sissy, femdom, mind slave, gooning, cuckolding, degradation, feet, ass licking, etc) and wanted to find some hypnosis and resources to undo all of this.

    I've tried a few restoration to alpha, anti-sissy, and hypnosis wipers from the likes of Nimja and similar folks, but I want a complete cocktail solution to totally eradicate any trace of these ''viruses' because although I feel like Nimja and the others have helped, it seems like there is some latent programming still left behind that is latched on and feeding on my geniune past desires to crossdress when I was younger .
     
  2. Vir Rex

    Vir Rex Fapstronaut

    Don't rely on hypnosis to undo hypnosis, it could make you spiral even deeper into that rabbit hole.

    The only way to truly cleanse your mind would be to start praying. I know in this day and age that Christianity is mocked constantly but most psychologists have failed to fix the mind with their pseudoscientific solutions. Prayer for me, especially praying the Holy Rosary, has helped purge my mind significantly. Reading Aristole or St. Thomas Aquinas will help you understand why masturbation occurs and how to deprogram yourself from the urges.
     
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  3. You could try a neurofeedback therapist and see if they can help get your mind safely to where you want it to go. I would only half agree with the above poster on hypnosis, I don't think its ineffective, but too much is probably not a good thing. Prayer and meditation are very effective though.

    I'm a little unclear about the crossdressing thing; it sounds like this is something that pre-dated the sissy hypnosis? If so then maybe also seek out a CSAT therapist. It may be that you need to talk this thing out and get some perspective on it.
     
  4. Definitely a thing before SP. So I don't know how that all factors into everything. I don't really feel the desire to right now at least however. Also what's CSAT?
     
  5. Why does masturbation occur from what you've learned so far?
     
  6. Vir Rex

    Vir Rex Fapstronaut

    In my opinion, masturbation is cheap pleasure that people use to distract themselves from deeper personal issues. In addition, masturbation is linked with low self-esteem, because when we watch porn we pretend to be one of the "actors" so we don't have to think about ourselves. This begins as vanilla porn, with man and woman, but eventually your tastes degrade as you not only want more extreme porn but you feel more worthless about yourself for engaging in the sinful act. From lesbian porn to rape porn to femboy porn to transexual porn, the soul becomes more sick until it forgets who it really is. This is, in fact, how a man ends up adopting more homosexual qualities and becomes submissive as he feels unworthy to earn the love of a woman. Essentially, pornography (and masturbation) trains you to be a slave.
    You should read Joe92's account of how transgressive porn almost made him lose his manhood: https://www.nofap.com/forum/index.php?threads/90-days-without-porn-transwoman-recovery.219402/
     
  7. Certified Sex Addiction Therapist (CSAT). You can search the Psychology Today website for one in your area (they're fairly common).

    I'm not confident enough to comment on the nature of crossdressing, but its worth exploring what this factor does mean, if anything, in light of the SP.
     
  8. TreyG

    TreyG New Fapstronaut

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    Well strictly speaking prayer is another word for "hypnosis" or meditation(self-hypnosis). However prayer in the Christian sense necessitates opening up and inviting the influence of outside forces to affect us. This is the same as what many of the hypno fetish videos utilize...
    Though that's an admittedly trivial detail. Also please remeber all hypnosis IS self-hypnosis. No one can ever be forcefully hypnotized. They must choose to open up n let down the normal barriers humans have evolved to protect our minds from the madness ever present in our "subconsciousness". If in charge of the English language, haha, id dispense with words like "prayer" and hypnosis n all synonymous terms. Favoring only the label of "meditation" refering to any and all inner actions having an affect on our state of consciousness...
    But I definitely agree with you that watching more hypno vids will more likely cause more mental control issues than he has already!
    All of these videos including the so-called "anti-" sissy ones(often being regular sissy hypnosis in disguise!!) are created by wicked individuals who have specific intentions and agendas for each video. While I can't claim to know exactly what they are. I can definitely perceive the general nature of their intent...
     
  9. ridiculous bear

    ridiculous bear Fapstronaut

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    Trey is so right; all hypnosis is self hypnosis. Its a choice. An addiction to porn of any variety is an emotional crutch, just as would be surrendering your emotional self to a therapist or to a cult or to transcendental meditation! Ultimately what we are talking about here is taking responsibility for your own wellbeing, loving yourself to the extent that you no longer want to hurt yourself. Getting back on your own side. A therapist can help bring that awareness to you, can give you tools and knowledge to cope and to take some steps day by day to get you there, in other words get you out of the fear of trying, but ultimately you have to get to that point yourself of saying 'Right. Never again. This is costing me too much.' I read a great little book a while ago and its very very cheap on the kindle in an electronic download called 'love yourself like your life depends upon it'. It's a very easy read and might help.
     
  10. Seek Jesus bro, I'm being serious. He will heal you. It's a lie bro.
     

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