Looking for longterm brotherhood

I am a single guy, never married. You have your hands full....kids must be fun...you are blessed. I like my solitude and quiet.

 

I can definitely share your views in shifting our sexual drive to serve higher purposes.

I am not in my late 30s however, only 25 and do not have kids or even a partner for that matter. I am working on that, as well as other stuff such as my career, developing more meaningful friendships and learning as much as I can (I love math, music and philosophy) and I'd love to meet people who are accountable and motivated in their lives.

 

Hi guys, I like what I read up there and am definitely interested in reaching out more and learning to express myself freely, whether about PMO or other more interesting worldly matters. I say 'more interesting', as I've been dealing with this PMo crap for a good few decades and it's getting boring. Really boring. So much so I'm deciding to finally take it on and show who's boss.

No great expectations...those tend not to work. They only raise stakes ina game a lot of people are still learning to play, so when you loose, it can feel like you've lost the world, as you've invested so damn much in winning in the first place.

My principle goal is to just be gentle with myself. Allow myself to fail and let my higher self be my true guide.

I'm also interested in whatsapp or Telegram, so let me know how things develop As far as connecting multiple times daily, I suppose sometimes I might, but I'd try not to as I've so much I need to focus on.

Thanks for reaching out!

 

Hi Guys, I have an accountability group going on discord if you are interested. We chat a bit during the day but we primarily have a meeting on Saturdays at 11AM Atlantic time. We normally review a video or topic and have open discussion. It may be on PMO or any other area we find topical at the time. It is just four of us right now.

We use discord because most persons prefer some level of anonymity and it is a pretty okay platform to host virtual meetings. If you are interested you can PM me you discord details and we will add you to the group.

Please note the key goal of the group is accountability and self improvement. Respect for each other is vital and we encourage open thought. We are trying to foster a safe space where men can speak freely.

 

Hello, glad to hear you’re doing well, I went through a difficult journey of recovery myself and I’m nearing my 30’s. it’s great to hear you’ve got a wife and children. You can message me here anytime it’s nice to be able to talk with guys who have went through the same thing, it helps us hold each other accountable.

 

Hey there @fellow

I like what you've posited about "high-drive"; that's a pretty neat idea that you can point it toward something constructive. I'm new to NoFap and looking for an accountability partner or group. I don't have kids yet, but they're on the horizon for my wife and me. Married for 6 years, still struggling with lust and pornography, but I'm hoping that with some accountability and seeking community, that I'll be more successful trying to live without lust.

If you want to meet up, let me know. Also, @Deysonn , your group sounds pretty awesome. I'm open to anything accountability-wise.

Best,
MT

 

Any luck getting the group going. Just a reminder I already have a small group going in discord if you guys want to join or merge. New members are welcome!

 

@Deysonn I'm down. Just linked up with @fellow on telegram, but glad to do whatever.

 

The more the merrier. More persons to offer support.

 

Hello guys,

I am so grateful for the existence of this forum. It's so different from 99% of other forums, which are very toxic and inhumane.
It makes people connect to each other, develop, become more mature in life and even make friendships. Right now, I have just one friend in my life, a woman. So after discovering that I've become too obsessed with this only friend and also seeing my life getting worse thanks to pornography I decided to return on noFap. This is my first day without porn after a long time and I already feel much better. I look forward to making more friends.

 

Hi @fellow thanks for your note. Fellow 'high-drive' person here, you can check out my journal if you'd like to learn a bit more about me.
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Anyway, would be up for your 11am Saturday discord sessions - am learning a ton about my own porn and masturbation addiction, after a 40+ year relationship with pornography you can say I'm somewhat an expert on how impossible it is to leave this habit without outside help, especially with help of my spouse of 20+ years. Feel free to send a PM (I believe they are called conversations on this platform).

Also, are you familiar with Napoleon Hill's chapter 11 (or chapter 12 depending on the version) of Think and Grow Rich? All about sexual transmutation, what a powerful idea, that I am seeing applied every day now. Becoming porn-free, having accountability partners to share every day and to talk about other stuff, talking regularly with my spouse about how I am doing with my PMO addiction, has released a torrent of creative energy in my work, in my personal life, and in my goal-setting. It's like the brakes have been released.

Look forward to hearing from you. Cheers luckydog

 

Good looking out sir!

 

Telegram group sounds very good. Are you still doing it?