I am very much interested in abstaining from orgasm for an extended period of time. I have not looked at or fantasized about porn in 52 days. I have been reading about how I might not know my normal self. I have been using masturbation and orgasm (MO) on a regular basis as a coping mechanism since I was 12. Based on the science and books I have been reading, the MO habit probably has my mind off its normal operating program. I am quite interested in seeing how my libido, energy level, and other things might change after an extended abstinence from MO. Unfortunately, now that I have stopped watching porn, my wife and I have been getting along better and sex has become more frequent. I would like a good conversation starter in the form of a youtube video or blog post, that can help introduce the concept of abstaining from orgasm in a positive light. Basically, talk about the whole thing as a way to strengthen our relationship, instead of talking about it using negative words like 'abstinence'. Can you all send me any links you recommend? The more links the better, as I have already googled a lot and come up dissatisfied with the content I found. Thanks!