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Loosing the love of my life.

Discussion in 'New to NoFap' started by Rival91, Jun 28, 2019.

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  1. Jun 28, 2019 #1
    Rival91

    Rival91 New Fapstronaut

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    Long story short: So basically i have been watching porn on and off my whole life. Not harmful amounts (or at least i dont think) but I would occasionally flick over and do the "business". I have been in a relationship with my partner for 10 years and now things are beginning to get rough because of finacial difficulties, stress and of course porn. The problem is i have let my porn habit become "pro active", if you like, by calling into those stupid babestation chanels on sky.

    My GF finds out about this and is rightfully upset but my issue is that after countless arguing and fall outs i keep going back. In all honesty due to typical relationship issues (finances ect.) there has been a lack of romance from both parties. I am struggling. I hate porn. I love my partner but she is literally on the verge of leaving me because of babestation. Its difficult because i want to show my partner affection but she is discusted in my behaviour and her libido or sex drive has deminished.

    I am missing a few key points but theres so much to talk about and its getting late . My problem is i know i can stop calling or even watching porn to begin with but it ls proving to be difficult without an intimate sex life. I need help.
     
    Rival91, Jun 28, 2019
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  2. Jun 28, 2019 #2
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    Hello and welcome! :)

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  3. Jun 28, 2019 #3
    Fighterspirit

    Fighterspirit Fapstronaut

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    What I can tell you mate don't give up on her just leave pmo for good and fight to get her back I know it might be difficult for you but with prayer read the Bible,don't count days when you relapse and think about the good benefit you can enjoy by abstaining yourself from porn I've there brother and I know how it feels Trust me use those key and you'll see

    Till then be strong man life is worth leaving it
     
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  4. Jun 29, 2019 #4
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    Hey & Welcome to NoFap Community! :)

    You are in the right place for recovery here. We are so glad to have you with us to beat this addiction together.

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