Yes, she did move forward - remarried, just had the second child. They are happy! * If your SO has been doing this for a long time...he may need a long reboot as well. FWIW, I've never read an account of one rebooting and not falling back for the SO. Just a wild guess on the mechanism at work: abstaining from PMO, and making you his everything, should rewire his brain to you, once you are intimate again? He must've fancied you, in fact loved you, to have started that relationship. Not an expert on this, but wish you guys all the best! P.S. Your username just breaks me inside with sadness. Sorry.