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Losing hope

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Crimson, May 29, 2017.

  1. Crimson

    Crimson Fapstronaut

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    I've been flatline now for 35 days or more I have an iron will but this is now starting to crack and crumble the constant mood swings the state of depression and anxiety that creeps up over nowhere and about silly little things and my god then I lbidio is the worst I hate it I hate it so much now since I started this journey I've been so good with girls like my confidence is sky high I can flirt and have a good time he'll I even met up with a friend and managed to just go with it and we ended up cuddling I never make moves but I did this time

    I'm seeing so much improvements but I dunno the dead dick thing is making me really lose hope it's like I want to get intimate with these people none of that porn crap anymore actually itimiatcy not just in it for the orgasm more just the bonding of two people

    I just want my libido back I probably went off subject but I also just needed to rant aswell and probably read back on this with a more logical mind and it probably inspire me more late but I just needed to write it down

    Anyone got some words or insperation any long streakers or people on a long flatline able to just give me hope tell me that it will get better soon I just need a lil push just so I can patch up my willpower and carry on this journey longer
     
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  2. Burner1

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    It will pass, I can assure you. It takes time, depending on many factors. It took me 40 days my first round after a heavy term of abuse. Once it did pass, I was firm in ALL areas, and you will be too. You can't rush it, tease it, use it for anything to pee or it will take all the more longer to heal and recover.
     
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  3. Burner1

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    I can talk with you more later if you like, but have to run for now. Have faith - it will get better! If you want to PM, you are welcome to do so.
     
  4. IamRick

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    Morning wood started coming back for me on day 38 & just making eye contact gave me boners on day 34+. You might just need to go a little longer, but im sure your really close. Stay strong
     
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  5. BrendanP

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    Don't believe what the counter says i didnt relapsed today i relapsed two weeks before i did anything about it which shows that i don't have a strong mentality and kept on watching porn everyday till this very day i decided to go back to NoFap for support because for my first journey it was nofap that helped me with the first so yes we are all in this together, resetting the entire counter when i start on June
     
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  6. Ghost_Rider

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    I did 87 days of reboot and then I fapped, its my day 1 again and Im still flatlining,
    so overtall its 68 days of flatline for me and i dont know how long it will last, my flatline started at day 38.
    All i can say is just hang in there, and im quite sure, the return of libido will be much stronger than before.
     
  7. Infern0

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    I feel the same man, i feel like shit

    but if we cave in we just gonna have to start again so lets just keep going
     
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  8. Crimson

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    Cheers man good to know someone is in the same boat as me to be fair I wasn't what I considered a chronic fapper maybe twice a day and maybe I think my problem was I got into some pretty extreme stuff but I never suffered pied like I could get hard for a girl easy but I can see now I could of easily gone down that slope hence why I'm guessing this flatline is taking forever
     
  9. Crimson

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    To be fair I'm not even sure if I was fine beacuse when I got with this girl I completely gave up p and m and it was about a month before we had sex so maybe I was actually broken before and didn't realise but yeah this flatline it just the void like I don't want to even m I sometimes get p urges but that's it I want to feel again man like those initial weeks that I had with the girl but it all ended due to flatline and I didn't know anything about nofap so you can see the panic that a 20 something guy would be feeling about It
     

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