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Losing PMO... Finding a Partner

Discussion in 'Success Stories' started by someguy-21, Mar 5, 2016.

  1. Hello Everyone! I've crushed my old record of 52 days, and I'm still going. I've stumbled and made mistakes before in the process of quitting P and MO. I've learned and I've succeeded. I've discovered a lot about myself and other people. But anyway, I'm Winning Everyday! I've developed the mindset that turning to porn can be a form of self hate and symbolism of surrender. Quitting porn is tough... but it turns out I'm tougher and so is everyone here in this community. For those of you thinking that P is your only hope of satisfying your sexual desires, I'd say that that is complete trash. Don't make yourself into someone who just sits alone and watches others (who are faking btw) have sex. I encourage you all to really quit porn, because it in it self helps you and it will also help you develop yourself; you'll develop yourself because the nofap lifestyle really sets an environment where you need to to actually take actions to change into a better self (thats if its done right). Quitting alone wont solve all your problems, but it certainly acts as a catalyst for success. Now with all of that said, I had met a girl recently. Around day 62-63, I was on a trip to the city for an over the weekend stay. I met a girl from another school at the hotel we were at. We just gravitated towards each other, we got each others numbers. The next night at the hotel we ended up hooking up and it was great! She even mentioned I was the best she had. We're still talking and we're friends. Maybe things will go further than that... Theme of the story is NoFap brings out inner change, change brings out positive energy that draws others to you, you can find a partner (even if it may just be for a night). Don't use porn, don't settle for that trash... Go out and explore. A guy or girl may be just around the block waiting to meet you.
     
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  2. Great points for not looking at porn. Congrats for the girl though :D. Also that positive energy that attracts people is true. For others to love you, you must truly love yourself first.
     
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  3. Exxz

    Exxz Fapstronaut

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    Congratulation on making it almost to 70 days now. This is definitely a story for inspiration and success.
     
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  4. stephen huang

    stephen huang Fapstronaut

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    i am making it almost to 50 days.i find that it will be easier if i stay away from internet.so good luck for you .
     
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  5. Veritech

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    Kicking porn to the curb exudes self-confidence which is the positive energy that you are talking about.

    Women like confident men. They can spot a phony a mile away.
     
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  6. Gladiatori

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    @someguy-21 OWNAGE MAN!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
     
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