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Loss of erection right before penetration

Discussion in 'Porn-Induced Sexual Dysfunctions' started by Maverick47, Sep 22, 2019.

  1. WWW1974

    WWW1974 Fapstronaut

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  2. Goingtodothis21

    Goingtodothis21 Fapstronaut

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    That’s exactly what it is mate so STOP NOW! I’ve been dealing with it for years, it’s very embarrassing and humiliating. It’s resulted in me actually almost dreading sex rather than look forward to it.

    Like you it’s all fine until penetration, all good after oral etc and then goes floppy almost immediately when I’m putting it in. So I make excuses to the girl such as I came too early or have drank too much. It’s not worth it man so as I say just stop.

    I know I probably don’t look like the best role model with 0 days but I’ve had some really long streaks in the last few years even to the point where I’ve had a quite healthy sexual relationship with a lovely girl but we both knew I wasn’t 100%. But I’ve relapsed a few times recently so I’m writing messages to fellow fapstronauts like yourself to give me perspective again and get my brain rewired.

    I’d recommend you Google a few things to find out a bit more such as “your brain on porn” and “addicted to internet porn”. There are some really good videos on YouTube as well. It really is frightening how destructive this addiction is, porn is absolute bullshit...good for nothing!
     
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  3. WWW1974

    WWW1974 Fapstronaut

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    I agree with what you just said. P is very destructive and I don't think we really now just how bad it is. Thanks for your comments. you
     
  4. You have an erection w a girl while receiving oral? But right when you are about to have sex you loss it?

    You have performance anxiety. Given porn is not helping your situation. But it is performance anxiety. Once you do it, you'll continue to do so somehwat confortbaly more and more. ED will come back at times (especially in the beginning) but itll mainly be easier. Just a learning curve.

    My suggestion would be to ask her to guide you in. You dont have to do anything except push.
     
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  5. toomanymany

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    I've been keeping myself away from PMO for 242 days (altough I've relapsed several times and peeped for months I didn't know peeping was bad) and I still have the SAME EXACT ISSUE. No problem while making love, perfectly good erections most of the time but just before the penetration it just goes away. If it's not before the penetration, after I've put it in, it goes away in a few seconds. It's so humiliating. I think it's performance anxiety and our brains wired to this and we think we won't be able to perform due to past experiences. I will consider meditating. Can anyone pass me some links about meditating about anxiety issues? Thank you all nice people here.
     
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