Hi Everyone, i have just found out about bf's porn addiction. after many years together, he confessed. i am hurt, ashamed and humiliated. All these years i thought it was my fault, i was not good enough when things did not work. I am so angry, cannot stop my tears. I know its an addiction and i know its not my fault, but i feel so stupid for not realizing it earlier. I do not know what to do. It impacted our relationship, and my self esteem big time. I love him, but i am not willing to put up with this. I dont want to end our relationship, but i need to give an ultimatitum, either me or the porn. It is so heart breaking, such a lonely experience. damn porn industry, damn it all.