Love disappointment (attempted conquest) can lead back to addiction

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Hello
What do you do after a strong disappointment in an attempted love conquest (almost conquest)?
Can this situation of deep emotional suffering lead back to addiction?
Has anyone experienced this during a reboot period?
I feel that addiction won't relieve this anguish at all; on the contrary, it will increase even more the feeling of anhedonia and guilt for having expectations without success. I already had anhedonia, but this feeling of living a romance helped reduce it a lot.
They're just pixels on the screen. I can't accept that as something that can help.
Well, with the passing of days (or more time) and new opportunities, I hope these feelings of anguish will pass.
Single for many years.
Yes, I've been feeling lonely every day for a long time.
I can't afford therapy at the moment. I don't go to the doctor to take medication for something, they can't solve it.

After the feeling of anguish and loneliness increased even more.
So now I'm trying to turn that feeling of loneliness into solitude (the last few weeks).

comment: I'm aware that the desire to conquer was greater on my part.

Comments are welcome, as long as they're not mean-spirited. As long as they are good-natured

Note: I am not a native English speaker
Text corrected and translated by deepl translator.
 
It can fuel a downward spiral but it can also be transformative. It will be tough to work trough it but know that accepting these feelings are a part of true transformation. PMO is your way of escaping your emotions. Start diving into them instead. The only way to truly reboot is to start knowing who you are. You do that by being aware of your feelings.
 
You cant conquer a heart of another just because you want to. Its all God appointed. Pray to God for a girl you love and who loves you.

God is the answer. Your little ego is nothing
 
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