I have a theory that love songs actually can be rather detrimental for your psyche. I think listening to them can leave you feeling, that you need a girl to fulfill you. I just had this epiphany today. I always, get hung up on a certain girl, always. When I actually stop caring so much, they start getting interested in me, and then all of a sudden, I am back in the loop. A girl can never ever complete us, it is a myth, there is a girl who can make up for our flaws. We must complete ourselves. And if you sincerely believe that a girl can complete you, then what does that say about you? You are not worth it until a pretty girl comes along?