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Low Libido

Discussion in 'Rebooting in a Relationship' started by present2015, Apr 4, 2018.

  1. present2015

    present2015 Fapstronaut

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    Any ideas on getting Libido back. Now on Day 76 of Hardmode with a sex encounter with wife on day 62. However, I have no sexual desire. It sucks.
     
  2. phuck-porn!

    phuck-porn! Fapstronaut

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    Why does it suck??? Seems like a gift to keep your mind off pmo...
     
  3. ukbritishbloke

    ukbritishbloke Fapstronaut

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    Just wait and stick at it is my advice.
     
  4. Les_Brown

    Les_Brown Fapstronaut

    You may be in a flatline. This is a normal phase during your recovery and results when the neural pathways in your brain involving pleasure, in addition to your neurotransmitter levels/receptors are changing. Practically everyone undergoing the noFap journey will at some point in time experience one or more flatlines. It's normal.

    You may watch videos on YouTube about the flatline, as there are a lot, or read posts on this forum to see how other people are getting through them.

    You may also consider using this time to give more attention to your SO and her emotional needs. Be there for her. Be vulnerable with her about how you are feeling. This open communication and sensitivity, in my humble opinion, will do more to strengthen your relationship than physical intimacy, alone.
     
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