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Lust increasing

Discussion in 'Self Improvement' started by Kddyy, Sep 29, 2020.

  1. Kddyy

    Kddyy Fapstronaut

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    Now days i am able to control myself very well and i haven't seen any porn and also not masturbated for almost 50-60 days but due to this i think my lust is keep on increasing day by day and i am getting urges and dealing with them takes my lot of time, so i thought that i will go to the park and stare women (only to extent that it will not disturb them) to release my urges but due to this i think my urges are increased more and i have started dreaming sexual fantasies at night i don't know what to do , should i masturbate to release my sexual urge or continue my nofap , is this lustful behaviour normal and if anybody has passed through the same pls tell how to overcome it.
     
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  2. IGY

    IGY Fapstronaut
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    I do not understand how you came to this conclusion. o_O Obviously, going out to stare at women is going to increase your lust. How could you not know that?
    Here again, I do not understand your rationale. You think that masturbating will release and reduce your sexual urges? Rather, masturbating will increase your lust. You will give the brain what it craves - a flood of dopamine - and it will want more. So yeah, continue with your streak. Don't masturbate, don't look at anything arousing and stop staring at women.
     
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  3. L3t'sG0

    L3t'sG0 Fapstronaut

    About the increasing lust.

    Personally, I found out as the days go on, the urges increase. Soon though, these previous urges will only become a standard of normal that you will be perfectly ok with. So don't worry about you turning into some sort of uncontrollable lust monster as though the urges will increase, you will be able to control it.

    There will be days where you're so lustful that you want to fap to rid yourself of these urges. Don't as those will get rid of what you worked for and it's very disrespectful to the promise you made at Day 1. Instead, wait it out. Everyone has bad days and after those, you grow and finally get that good day in. You will control this.
     
  4. Love2LongBoard

    Love2LongBoard Fapstronaut

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  5. ThePeakWae

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    Instead of thinking lustfully about those women, think compassionately, Compassion kills Lust, I´ve tried it, if you tweak what arouses you into a compassionate situation you wont fap, pure and simple.
     

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