Made it!! 21 days

J

J_dogg79

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well I didn’t think it was possible, but tomorrow marks 21 days no PMO.

I def now realize that the hardest thing for me was the P, less so the MO. I thought there was no way I could make it that long and surprised myself with my restraint. But, with that said, I am super fuckin stoked to jo tomorrow (no P of course)! My every thought for the last couple days has basically been all sex all day, and I get a boner if a breeze passes by. Lol.

My question is: I was trying to rid myself of death grip and retrain my dick to stim other than my hand. What’s the best way to start retraining it now? I def feel like my sensitivity has gone way up and like I’m gonna bust as soon as I start. Lol.

Should I use a fleshlight? My left hand? Just a looser grip? I don’t want these 21 days to go to waste.

Thanks.

J
 
J_dogg79 said:
well I didn’t think it was possible, but tomorrow marks 21 days no PMO.

I def now realize that the hardest thing for me was the P, less so the MO. I thought there was no way I could make it that long and surprised myself with my restraint. But, with that said, I am super fuckin stoked to jo tomorrow (no P of course)! My every thought for the last couple days has basically been all sex all day, and I get a boner if a breeze passes by. Lol.

My question is: I was trying to rid myself of death grip and retrain my dick to stim other than my hand. What’s the best way to start retraining it now? I def feel like my sensitivity has gone way up and like I’m gonna bust as soon as I start. Lol.

Should I use a fleshlight? My left hand? Just a looser grip? I don’t want these 21 days to go to waste.

Thanks.

J
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Nice, brother! As far as JO goes, good question. As long as your dick is working, though, get a great girl in your life and have sex!! Why the fuck would you wanna jerk off rather than have amazing sex?
 
J_dogg79 said:
I don’t want these 21 days to go to waste.
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3 weeks with no P, M or O is a good start J. But from what you have written previously, it transpires you didn't make it:
J_dogg79 said:
After 1 week with no porn, I MO’d. First time was super tough, took me a while. Next two times were significantly easier. But still not as freely as if watching p. Had to reeeaaally concentrate.
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Apart from masturbating and orgasming, the same post reveals that you haven't had a break from all erotic influences:
J_dogg79 said:
I do have hookup apps on my phone, which after exchanging photos/vids I guess can be construed as looking at porn.
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There is no way anyone would have healed the damage of 25 years of PMO after just a few days. It takes many, many months for the damage done to dopamine receptors in the brain to heal and for the entire reward system of the brain to reboot to factory settings. Additionally, the evidence indicates that your 21 days hasn't been truly PMO free in any case. Success with this reboot requires commitment, sacrifice and focus. Look around the site and get inspired by those who do this.​
 
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