Have you experienced a sense of magnetism since being on semen retention?

  1. Yes, absolutely!

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  2. Nah it's placebo.

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  3. Not sure yet...

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  1. thegibbie

    thegibbie Fapstronaut

    This will be a thread of personal examples of times when I've experienced instances of magnetism where people/animals were drawn to me and instances where I've experienced a time of good fortune.

    Other may feel free to post here as well with examples of their own.


    For now I will start by notating the most recent example which occurred on Day 44 of SR: A female at my workplace who does not usual interact with me came up to me and offered to get me a coffee from Dunkin' out of the blue. This female usual goes to Dunkin' to get coffees for the supervisors but what makes this experience out of the ordinary is that she went out of the way to ask me if I would like a coffee as well as I work in a different department than her. As a reminder this female and I do not really interact out side of greetings and farewells in passing. Anyways back to the conversation: I then proceed to ask her if she wanted money for my coffee and she says "no it's on me". Now I'm very shocked because this is not something I expected at all. I thought she was offering to just go to Dunkin' and bring the coffee back to me, but no, now's she's also going to pay for it. So finally, I'm like "guess this means I owe you one" and she says, "no don't even worry about it" with a smile and then I proceeded to ask her for her snapchat which she gave me.

    This is just the most recent example of something that just "fell into my lap".

    Of course there have been many more subtle or nonsignificant experiences since I've started retaining.

    I'll be sure to update this thread the next time something worth mentioning comes up.
     
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  2. 010010010100000101001101

    010010010100000101001101 Fapstronaut

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    I do not know whether it's any type of magic going on or people just perceive me differently due to my unconscious facial expressions, or simply coincidence, but yes. People just are more friendly and initiate conversations with me more often; both strangers and acquaintances, who I see on regular, alike.

    Animals? Yes, my cat is flirting with me! Umm... no, not really. I don't hang around animals, not a pet type of person. I don't really care about them enough to pay attention to their behavior either.

    There is also weird sexual stuff going on for me on longer retention periods. Some of these are teases I can not really act on, but some are opportunities I probably could have. Without going into details on it, it's like universe is trying to make me lose my Chi. Something spooky about it for sure.
     
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  3. thegibbie

    thegibbie Fapstronaut

    Yeah it's like the universe is testing you, and with each "passing" experience you are rewarded with more gifts from the universe, however the tests get more and more challenging over time.
     
  4. Hold it in

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    Duality is a real force in the universe. I've experienced it many, many times.

    And secondly,. A cat will only flirt with you if they hear you open a can or bag (thinking it's food) ;)
     
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  5. Grey is colourless

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    It can be from slightly less stress hormonally on the system which means less jing used/wasted by the body on a daily basis, accumulated and somewhat filled up jing reserves which allows chi/prana to grow and some shen to acclamate. How you look, like sexy, etc is perceiving the jing unconsciously. How intense/easy to notice or pay attention to a body is the chi or what is called in the western traditions 'aura' / wei chi. So a body that can support more chi and having more chi definitely equals growing magnetism over time. You try a form of chi breathing qiqong to boost faster yang chi. There is yin and yang chi, as specified by people like John Chang...yang chi comes from the sun and is embedded in the air and yin is in the soil. Food has both types. So do 'earthing' as well with this. For chi breathing, go outside in a good place that is calm and has good, clean chi. You don't want dirty old chi do you? Just let yourself breathe and relax on each breath gradually...maybe relax yourself and release tension on each outbreath if you find it easier. Now slightly lower bend your knees, lowering yourself and raise your hands in a relaxed manner in front of your chest, palms facing your chest/face and finger tips somewhat not touching. Now, do Not influence the breath in anyway just let it be itself. Relax and on the inbreath (inhalation) see white light from everywhere entering with the breath. If you do it right you will probably feel yang chi as heat straight into your belly area, foremostly.
     
  6. ALEX_88

    ALEX_88 Fapstronaut

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    I can give you an example that happened to me just today ... today my doctor told me that she finds me beautiful and fit, I've known her since I was a child and she never told me (31 years at the moment), it's almost 2 years that I don't masturbate
     
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  7. thegibbie

    thegibbie Fapstronaut

    That's awesome, thanks for sharing!!
     
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  8. TigerKing

    TigerKing Fapstronaut

    It's hard for me to say, because I'm not sure what is the factor that makes women more attracted to me now. It could be alot of things. But it causes more frustration for me than anything else. Because I'm married, and I'm like "Where were you girls back when I was an incel in college and school?!"

    One of my biggest struggles of late is sexual frustration, in that I was a virgin when I was married and now I want more sexual experiences, but I know my marriage would not survive that. So, I want to jump these college girls giving me googly eyes, but I know I can't and shouldn't.
     
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