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Discussion in 'Porn Addiction' started by ThePeakWae, Oct 24, 2021.
Semen retention I mean
I practice a spiritual form of masturbation where I focus on the raw stimulation without fantasy, without death grip, and without orgasm. I have no issues not orgasming. I don't do this every day though and I do orgasm with any sexual partners I have. I'm trying to teach myself how to have a non-ejaculatory orgasm, but I haven't been able to master it yet.
Interesting man, I understand exactly what you mean, how long have you been doing this? Doesn’t masturbating like that make you feel restless after a few days/weeks? Does it happen that you don’t have any orgasms for a few months in a row, and how does that feel?
I've been doing this for about a year and a half, off and on. When I first started I would orgasm because I was trying to ride the edge too closely as I practiced the non-ejaculatory orgasm (NEO). I started dating someone for most of it, but we broke up at the end of summer. Since then I've been with two women so I haven't gone months without orgasm. At this point I'm honestly too tired and have too little time to really focus on mastering the NEO so I just use it as a practice for discipline and stamina.
I find meditation really helps with any restlessness or anything I might feel. I definitely do have days where I'm ridiculously horny, but I bring it into my awareness, give it love, and then breath it out with that technique. I don't judge myself or demonize my sexuality in any way.
In my case dropping porn made it more easier to have non-ejaculatory orgasms.