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Mandalorian Challenge 100 Days + [OPEN]

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Wolfyoufeed, Dec 26, 2019.

So you want to be a Mandalorian?

  1. “This is the Way”

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  2. “Hell no, paint a target on my back?”

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  1. Jo_Fabstronaut

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    My head was about to burst last night.. I was having malicious thoughts about women I know , which my conscious level cant agree with... at this point I thought it is better to relapse than having such thought... just after relapse those thoughts went away.. I think it was essential for my gradual recovery... this time it was on Day 58 which is 4 days ahead of my last streak.. I'm not finding excuses for this fall.. this is what I have in my mind.. I'm learning to cope with the demons.. I'll survive... This is the way
     
  3. Changeforthebest

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    Day 9 of 90



    No social media

    no PMO
     
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  4. hollyman

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    the key for fast recovery is to beat the chasser effect ASAP, no "actually one more fap is ok" No ,,, just one relapse and moving forward

    In my personal fap experience if u can beat the chasser effect and made ur relpase just once, you can come back stronger and almost no benefit gone from previous streak

    On the contrary, if u cant beat ur chasser effect ASAP, the highest ur streak is the deeper u will addicted into and u will strugle to make at least 1 week streak
     
  5. Changeforthebest

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    Day 10 of 90



    No social media

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    This urges are crazy today. Don’t know if its cos of the alcohol. You know it’s Christmas and I’ve been drinking and thinking (not drunk yet tho). What I don’t wanna do is find myself invite my ex over or any girl. I wanna be in control and focus on other things.
     
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  6. hollyman

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    The urge is strong

    But i dont want fo fall into the dark side again
     
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  7. Day 132.

    Lots of urges at this time of year it seems. Careful with alcohol, stress and other things which can lead us down the garden path.

    @hollyman I really like your post about beating the chaser effect: the sooner you get up a few days' streak, the better, and the more benefit you maintain from your previous streak. It's like working out: if you only miss a day you'll still have your strength, if you binge for a few days you'll start to lose it. But it's never too late to switch gears. Remember the wolf you feed...

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    Sorry mate. How are you doing, and how can we help?

    If your day count is accurate, then it looks like you're having trouble getting going again (which we all have of course). May I sound like a broken record and suggest: Even though you might feel like crap, review your reasons for doing this - your journal. Think about what led you to reset/relapse, what practical things you can do to prevent it for the next few days in particular, and write it down. This will help, I promise.

    We want to see you winning this, and you will :)

    I hear you...it's so tempting to turn to an old gf sometimes...

    Were you able to look forward -> beyond the emotion, to what you really want for yourself? That's what helps me, on the rare occasion that I am able to do it in the moment! Or if you were able to avoid your temptation, what did help?
     
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  8. Sc8r51o1n

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    Day 47 check in.

    I found the key to avoid late night youtube with automatic switch off of my phone: My android has the option to shutdown and turn on by schedule. So from 0130 to 0700 - no phone.
    Well the switch off really helped me last night. I ate without media at all. Was asleep by 2am. Now i am awake before the si rise by accident :)

    Also the mediation habit was used while i had to walk to the store: i was bored and then decided to be mindful of my body and thoughts. It was pleasant.
     
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  9. hollyman

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    how can i do it? Did it use another apps? Thats so cool
     
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  11. Changeforthebest

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    I just ended my 12 days streak. I don’t know how I managed to see porn on Twitter and I was hooked. I watched it over and over again. I was mad horny. Then my ex called my she was coming over, I was mad excited, I started watching it again. I even saw drops of semen on my genital. So she came, I was acting abnormal around her. She’s told me to stop so many times but instead, it turned me on. I wasn’t wanting to turn off the urges and emotions. I could control myself tho but I didn’t want to because I wanted to O. I hate myself for been all over her. I hate myself for been needy around her. It was like a charm. We later had Sex and Tbh I wanted more and more. I just wanted to keep fucking her. I don’t know why I behaved that way.
     
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  12. Checking in, day 133

    Nice!

    Yeah it's a good reminder hey. The picture was originally posted by @Wolfyoufeed himself.

    Oh man that sucks. I think I understand though. When there's loneliness, and a person to have sex with is present, it's normal to be like that - I've been there before.

    Thankfully I no longer hang around anyone where it's an option. It's one of the main reasons why I'm avoiding alone time with someone who is interested in me actually - it's not even on the table, but she's right into me, so it's very dangerous. That's my suggestion to you: if you have taken sex off the table - if you are committed to no PMO, then either tell her about it and get her on board with it, or don't spend time with her. Of course it's all up to you how you want to handle it, but looking from the outside, that's the clear choice.

    What's your plan?
     
  13. hollyman

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    "I like to swing but dr No means No, baby" Austin Power

    I dont know what kinda of twitter trend in your country but in my country twitter is a mad dangerous... You can search plenty of porn scene, porn star, cam sex and even prostitute, maybe you never heard it from me b4 but i was having experience relapse at 100+ because of twitter. And i deleted my account back then

    Seriously i was so afraid to twitter and by far at least for me opening twitter is as same as or much worse than opening porn sitr
     
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  14. Day 134

    Yep...Twitter and Instagram and even Reddit are very dangerous for me too, so I don't use them.
     
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  15. hollyman

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    Same problem phone addiciton...
    Last time i even use nofap to procresnate


    I want to get rid of these first, i want to lay low for maybe 1 month. Good bye (for a while)
     
  16. Checking in

    Sorry @hollyman. Wishing you all the best.

    When you come back, we'll be here.
     
  17. Mya

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    Hi fellow would be Mandalorians.

    I am new to this particular thread.

    I am in this challenge long term so checking in . Started at new year fresh so will check by end of month.

    Month 1/12
     
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  18. Mya

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    I am new to some of the terms like

    Edging?
    No subs I get that it's looking for substitutes to P right?
    BSU or something like that
     

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