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Mandalorian Challenge 100 Days + [OPEN]

Discussion in 'Events & Challenges' started by Wolfyoufeed, Dec 26, 2019.

So you want to be a Mandalorian?

  1. “This is the Way”

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    98.7%
  2. “Hell no, paint a target on my back?”

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  1. Sc8r51o1n

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    Day 52/72

    Some new mando gadget is acquired i see: a flame thrower and armored boots. Nice, a Scorpion will make use of those.

    Last two days i have urges and have had sexual dreams. Even wet dream this morning.

    I did set goals for the new year for the first time.
    I have two new tinder matches and that is pleasant.

    I have a small stone at home that looks like a mando helmet, cool stuff.

    I am also updating an old numerology app. I wonder if it is a time waste or just passion.
     
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  2. Unhommebinsoft

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    Hi people, pleasure to meet you! (Hi again @EndPornLiveLife @hollyman, how have you been?),

    I'm back! Needed to get around here for a while, mind if I embark (again) in the journey with you?

    This is the way.

    Day 0
     
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  3. Welcome to the challenge, Potential @Mya :)

    Edging is M without reaching O.
    Subs - yep.
    I don't know what BSU is, but maybe it's best if it stays that way...

    This glossary of terms might be useful.
    https://nofap.com/glossary/
     
  4. Oh welcome @Unhommebinsoft, it's great to have you back! :D

    I've been well thanks. Life is keeping me on my toes! (maybe not literally though - I had surgery on my foot two weeks ago haha).
     
  5. Changeforthebest

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    Something happened and I feel like I let myself down. My ex asked to visit me so I took her to my bedroom, I wasn’t suppose to initiate sex with her but I did, while having sex and asked me to pull out for reasons best known to her. I asked if she was sure about this, and she said yes so I pulled out (old me would have begged for the pussy cos I haven’t ejaculated yet). Right now, I feel like not having sex with her anymore not cos I’m upset at what she did but because I’m not suppose to be all over you. You’re my ex. I don’t wanna initiate sex with women anymore till I’m married. I believe with that I can be able to control this urges, see every temptation and not fall into them.


    I was able to go more than 90 days without PMO last year and I stopped initiating sex with women who can to my house, bro u should see how this girls kept coming. Each one of them undressed me themselves, I felt loved and that helped my sexual performance. But I later fapped Dec 29th 2020, I didn’t really feel bad about it because I edged for an hour and I knew I wasn’t gonna do it again. I did that cos I found porn on my Twitter. Took me days before I fapped tho even after seeing the P vid on Twitter (don’t worry I already deleted the app). I guess that was why I was all over my ex. I couldn’t really control myself.



    I didn’t call this girl for 8 months bro, like I moved on even when I saw her sometime after 8 months, I just looked at her normal. I didn’t wish we could have Sex right now. I was strong, I was mindful all thanks to Nofap.



    She’s scared of me I know, I sense it.

    Twizza is back now.

    I really don’t know my goals yet but for now, I wanna be mindful when looking at a girls body (like looking and wanting all cos I wanna orgasm, I don’t want that). I want to be able to converse without getting hard again. I had that power last year. I lost it man. I was able to stay weeks with a girl, playing and sleeping together without getting hard (I get hard in the morning tho). She’d be all over man and when I say all over me, I mean she’ll go extreme to seduce me, that doesn’t work then she’ll come straight with kisses and touches, I kiss back and all before she undresses me, if she doesn’t undress me no matter how long I’m not interested and trust me I’m not thinking about it, man I was patience and mindful last year cos I wanted to make my life better. 2020 was a year I didn’t think of Sex. I was in control of my urges man. I mean I play with girls who are interested in me or I’m interested in and also we have good good conversation even when we both naked lol.


    I feel like I’ve Typed too much.

    I really wanna get back to not think about sex with every woman. I did that last year, I can do that again.



    DAY 0 no PMO

    How long can I do this for? Right now I don’t want any distraction and when I say distraction I mean even sex I don’t need to be having sexual thoughts and wanting to have sex. I need to allow them flow even if it’s gonna take 12 hours.
     
  6. Wow @Twizza that was descriptive. I don't know where to start, other than: It seems obvious, but since you haven't explicitly mentioned it, I'll ask...what went wrong here?
     
  7. Changeforthebest

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    I really don’t know, but what I do know is she’s an ex and I’m not suppose to act needy around her.
     
  8. Unhommebinsoft

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    Goddamn man, what happened? :eek:
     
  9. Checking in, Mandos!

    It seems to me that what I quoted was what went wrong:
    If she's a sexual partner, and you're trying not to have sex with her, doesn't it seem dangerous to take her to your bedroom?

    If I'm trying not to eat chocolate, for example, then I won't load up my fridge with the stuff...

    I had a Morton's Neuroma - basically a growth of nerve & scar tissue. It seems like a pretty common thing, not a big deal, but it requires day surgery to cut it out. I slept better than I have in a long time for that hour or so under a general anaesthetic haha.

    How have you been @Unhommebinsoft? What's been happening? Glad to have you back :)
     
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  10. Sc8r51o1n

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    Day 56 here. 76 personal.

    I am having urges, dreams and even a fantasy just before falling asleep. Nothing wrong, just accounting. So far i am acknowledging them and not falling.

    This is the way!
     
  11. Unhommebinsoft

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    Learned about it in my courses! It's cool that the surgery helped man, a nerve is known to transmit pain information to the brain so when it is swollen: it's not cool! Funny that this 1 hour was the best sleep you ever had ahahaha

    I been doing good thanks, glad to see you too! I needed to be back here to let my mind take control of itself again. Funny how sometimes you gotta act as a dad for yourself! But it's going good man: I've been snowshoeing with my girlfriend yesterday in a place called Mont Edouard in Saguenay Lac-St-Jean. It was so beautiful even tho it was grey in the sky! I recommend it for those who are travelling in Quebec :) I'm continuing my journey in my studies and continue drawing!

    How's your life @EndPornLiveLife other than the nevroma ??
     
  12. Unhommebinsoft

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    Day 3 checking in, let's keep this up!
     
  13. This is the way!

    Yeah I'm a fan of general anaesthetic for quality sleep ;)

    "funny how sometimes you gotta act as a dad for yourself" - yep I know what you mean! I guess that's why a lot of us are here haha.

    Oh that snowshoeing sounds wonderful. I looked at pictures of Mont Edouard and it looks goorrrrrgeous! What a lovely way to spend time with your girlfriend :)

    Me - it's been a bit hard, I broke up with GF six weeks ago, then I feel like I lost a friend or at least I have to push her away for a few months after she expressed interest in me. I just want to be single for now to get over my ex and can't handle the feeling of pressure. In fact I feel sick whenever she messages. Other than that, I just had a great few days at my sister's place with the family, trying not to to think about the big stuff, just enjoying quality time with them. It was really good.
     
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  14. Changeforthebest

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    Day 3



    No social media

    no PMO
     
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  15. Unhommebinsoft

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    Ahahaha tell me more about it: what did you dream of during the procedure? xD

    Thanks a lot man: it was great and in times of isolation because of COVID, it is cool to be outside and enjoy the fresh air a little bit :)

    Ooohhh sorry to read about it :/ Was it the same girl you were talking about before I went silence radio? Why did you have the urge to push her away from you? What pressure does this relationship is having on you?

    And more importantly: what are your plans from now on?

    I'm glad you had a good time with your family. Hope it helped you recover a bit from what it is you are trying to overcome. Be patient man, this is the way.
     
  16. Checking in

    Outside in the cool fresh air sure does sound amazing. And snowshoeing - not something we do much in Australia haha.

    What did I dream of: nothing at all, just sweet sweet nothing.

    Oh, I wasn't very clear - they're two different people. I broke up with GF (even though she still didn't think of me as her BF after all this time, very strange). Then another lady I'm friends with told me that she really likes me (there were actually two women who are friends who both said so, but one of them I hardly know). She might be a possibility for the future, but for now I can't keep hanging around her. She'll be waiting for me, and I feel like there's pressure to "move on". I'm just trying to walk on the ground as a single person and deal with missing my ex. I can't jump from branch-to-branch. Do you know what I mean?

    My plans are to be single, keep up the NoFap and improving other areas of my life too, like returning to daily bible reading and meditation which has become irregular.

    Patience. I hadn't thought about that. You're absolutely right. It's calming me just thinking about that word. Thank you for the reminder my friend. This is the way.


    How are you doing @Unhommebinsoft?
     
  17. Sc8r51o1n

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    Day 60 personal 80.
    A new gear maybe?

    Strange few days last three. I have to learn priorities and setting boundaries to people if i want to accomplish my goals.
    And how not to feel like AHole.

    They say - work hard, party later, in 10 years you will have all the time for friends.
    But i care for those around me right now.
     
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  18. Changeforthebest

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    Day 0 for me. It’s be difficult.
     
  19. Changeforthebest

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    I don’t know what’s happening lately but I think I’m hooked again. I haven’t fapped for more than 200 days but this morning, I watched porn and I fapped. I really don’t wanna have urges talk less of ejaculating. I’m back again. I want this year to be my best year. I need this. I’ve got goals. I don’t need this kinda behavior or habit. Not like I miss fapping. I guess I miss my favorite porn star (Riley Reid). I feel terrible. I’ll make sure I’m never hooked again and freed for life brothers. I’m working hard on myself. I miss the power I felt last year when I did my longest streak.
     
  20. Yeah I know what you mean. Boundaries are important, but how to set boundaries with ppl while still being loving is tricky, and I struggle with this myself. And yeah, we need friends now, not just in 10 years time.

    Well, you're here. First step :) Have you got a journal going? Got your reasons written down? Keep coming back man. That's the way to succeed. Keep coming back, give time to self-reflection and lifestyle changes, and keep coming back.

    Also, would you mind updating your post with spoiler code (or just removing the performer's name)? This is a screenshot from the forum rules & guidelines.
    https://forum.nofap.com/index.php?t...osting-rules-and-etiquette-guidelines.121256/

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