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Mantak Chia / Healing Tao

Discussion in 'Abstinence, Retention, and Sexual Transmutation' started by Freiheit, Dec 3, 2018.

  1. Dec 3, 2018 #1
    Freiheit

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    Hi Guys

    I started to practise the healing tao. I do the microcosmic orbit and I do the Masturabtion Practises (MO without Ejaculation by contracting PC Muscle) as well. Unfortunatley I startet to watch porn before doing the M Practises to get hot. I am stupid I know.

    Is there anybody who ha expirience with those techniques? How do you practise without falling back into P? Should I avoid it at all? I want to live my sexuality in a healthy way...

    Thx!
     
    Freiheit, Dec 3, 2018
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  2. Dec 3, 2018 #2
    PaulD2000

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    I used to masturbate every day or two but now I have stopped. I definitely could not tease myself again to engage in masturbation to almost the point of no return. I used to use the PC muscle and to stop myself going over the edge back to back and always lost control around the fifth time. As a result the orgasm was so so intense.
    I don't know why you would choose to do this without ejaculation, surely this is a form of torture or punishment? I imagine such a practice would take up a lot of time, both before, during and then trying to bring yourself back to some form of normality for the next hour or two after you stop. The normality, that for me kicks in around twenty seconds after ejacuataion.

    Just trying to understand why you would torture yourself like this..
     
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  3. Dec 4, 2018 #3
    Freiheit

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    It`s not torture at all. Do you know the books of the healig tao? You can have an orgasm without ejaculation. Even multiple orgasms are possible. They describe it as more intense than an orgasm with ejaculation. They use the sexual energie to fill the whole body with joy. They don`t "waste" it by ejaculation. That`s what I aming for. And I was wondering if somebody here in the forum is already there. :)
     
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  4. Dec 4, 2018 #4
    PaulD2000

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    I don't have much experience in this. I did go to a tantra class once. The tips of my fingers were tingling like crazy, it felt like they were swelling. The instructor said it was the energy in my body trying to release. I couldn't hold on and did release myself shortly after but I suppose it may take a bit of training to avoid ejaculation.
    I think you might be cheating a little though. aren't you on a path to nofap?
     
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  5. Dec 4, 2018 #5
    Freiheit

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    Actually I am on the path to myself. I am trying to find a way to live sexuality in a healthy way. I a sure that this is possible. I think it`s alway better to find a way to handle with something than to avoid it completeley.
     
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  6. Dec 4, 2018 #6
    PaulD2000

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    Is this something you practice daily. At the minute I am torn between managing my urges or trying to bury them with a NoFap lifestyle. I have abstained fr maybe a month before but end up relapsing and feeling terrible which affects my mood and actions. I am hoping if I go for longer I can almost shake the urges off and refocus.
     
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  7. Dec 4, 2018 #7
    Freiheit

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    I do the microcosmic orbit in the morinig for 30 Minutes and I do it before I go to sleep. The M-Practises I do when i feel that I`m horny. I think when we supress the urges they are going to be stronger until we relapse. I somehow have the feeling if we start giving sexuality a healthy space we can handle it. So my aim is to be capable having orgasms without P and without ejaculation. It`s healing and fun.
     
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  8. Dec 4, 2018 #8
    PaulD2000

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    Good luck with it, I might try it myself also
     
    PaulD2000, Dec 4, 2018
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