Marijuana with friends

Discussion in 'Rebooting - Porn Addiction Recovery' started by Jkubow, Jan 26, 2017.

  1. Jkubow

    Jkubow New Fapstronaut

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    I am having a really hard time with something. Before I quit fapping 9 days ago, I made plans with my friends and invited them to my house today to smoke weed with me. I only smoke every couple weeks, and always at my house with friends. I don't get horny at all in the slightest when I smoke. Over the past couple days, after feeling really dull and depressed, sleepless, and other withdrawal symptoms, I started a journey of real self improvement. I started meditating, exercising, etc. Now I feel closer than ever to my friends, but half of me no longer wants to get high, as I feel it would ruin my self improvement. This has nothing to do with possible urges, possible relapsing or anything like that. I just want to stay grounded in reality. I told my friends this, and they told me to smoke with them anyways. I don't think they realize that I'm a different person now than I was even a few days ago. So my question is, should I smoke with them this time and see how I feel? Or should I call it off and be seen as a douche in my friends' eyes and in my own eyes?
     
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  2. BigCheese

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    I have the same problem as you. They're the people that you can only chill with if you're down to smoke weed. Always put yourself first tho. But doing so every couple of weeks now and then isn't so bad. But when rebooting your brain is gonna try to switch addictions so I say you stay away from weed for awhile tho.
     
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  3. vibemaker

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    This is a tough situation. I would say, take yourself serious. If you got the feeling that at the moment you're definitley not interessted in smoking weed, don't do it.

    I think weed from time to time is no harm as long as you enjoy it and feel comfortable. I used to be a heavy daily smoker and i quit 6 months ago, when i started rebooting. I think I wouldn't came this far if i was smoking during this time, because weed makes me horny as fuck & it was always a escape from reality for me most of the time.
     
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  4. flyjoy

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    stop smokin for some time you make this for you not for your friends.
     
  5. Buddhabro

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    Friends that force you to do something that you don't want to do, are not real friends. Friends support you in reaching the goals you have set up to bring you peace and satisfaction.
     
  6. feo1966

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    Find new friends that have more positive interests. It might be time for you to move on
     
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  7. ReturnToGlory

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    I think you know the answer.
     

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