Married a cam girl and still want to have sex

If I ever got married, I'd have to order huge visual fantasy backdrops to hang in our secret chamber and she would have to be like...Princess Buttercup or something. This implies that I would have to find a real weirdo to marry. It isn't the girl, but the girl in context of narrative that does it for me. Hey, I'm a Libra. That's how I tick.

 

Personaly, I do not get it. It is their job to make you feel good, it is not like they really care who is watching. As long there is people giving money, I suppose.

 

Exactly, you can't get the thought process of every Tom, D!ck and Harry.

 

The same exact thing with porn, strippers, prostitutes, or anything else. Doesnt negate the level of addictiveness though.

 

Cam girls are defined as girls,with whom you pay to have camera enabled sex,through their websites in the form of money or the money gets converted into credits.
It's a virtual sex kinda stuff.

 

Your response is fine.

I was becoming addicted to it until something happened that snapped me out of it. I still struggle with PMO but I’ll never go back to cam models.

It’s a huge hook for a lonely person like me and many of those women are well trained in knowing what to say and how to act in ways that keep men coming back and spending money on them.

It’s a terrible and sad way to go. I lost between 2-3 grand. Many have lost 10’s of thousands. There’s one tragic case where the guy, Grant Amato, spent $200,000 on one cam model. He stole all that money from family members. When his dad tried putting a stop to his porn/cam model addiction, Amato ended up killing his father, mother, and brother.

 

Cam girls, porn, phone sex, virtual sex, sex dolls... Happy is the man who can say no to such things. I mean, let's face it - Freedom isn't living with no restraints... freedom is being able to pick and choose (yes or no) - otherwise it's compulsion.

 

Well yes, the sad part is the fact that you don't even have to give them money (Apparently) to watch them, but they manipulate people so they willingly give them the money. It is a sad situation. As another lonely person, I see it as someone profiting out of one's misery.

 

Definitely... which probably gets into the bigger question of legalized prostitution.. at the end of the day tho, IMHO, sexual intimacy that matters and fulfills a person can't be bought.

 

At least in prostitution, something actually happend. "Camgirls" are like watching pornography but it leaves you with psychological damage, or at least worse psychological damage.

 

Cam girls: quasi-fuckery with a window in between.

I don't know. It just doesn't do it for me. I'd be more likely to just go get a hooker and be done with it. Anyway...

 

You don't marry women that do sex work, this should be as obvious as not putting your hand in a bonfire. Hopefully you're prepared for what's coming, I've seen it happen and it's a frustrating sight because you know there is nothing you can do to help the man going through it.

Get help with your self esteem right away, do volunteer work if you must.

 

Alcohol, tobacco, gambling and coming soon to a dispensary near you, pot. It's about taxes.

I think I could make a pretty compelling argument for legalized prostitution.... but like pot, the legalization introduces a black market.

I know it's legal in Nevada and in Copenhagen. Maybe I'm missing my calling? Owning a drive thru brothel!!! Wenchies!!

 

What about the women who are married to porn or sex addicts unknowingly?

I am sure you are making a valid point but slandering women trapped in the similar cycle of money and sex is unnecessary. They deserves a modicum of basic dignity— and yes they can consider marriage but it’s not likely not as a sex worker.

I have known a few cam models in real life who are doing modeling to avoid prostitution. When we met one of them was not a cam model but when her regular job closed ( she worked at a clothing store), and she was unable to work to send money back to her home country for her two kids to eat. She told me she chose cam modeling because at least she would not have to be touched any one. It was either this or regular prostitution. She has no college education and no husband/ partner.

I lost track of her a month ago but this experience has helped humanize the understanding I have of sex workers.

Good point on the self esteem too. You are absolutely right.

 

Holy fucking shit, what a horrific incel story.

 

This is probably a very stupid question, but when someone interacts with a cam girl, does the model “see”
The person?
Essentially like FaceTime/Skype?

 

LOL