I'm sure this story will be familiar to many of you here ... First saw porn at 14-ish. Became addicted (MO at least once a day, PMO a few times a week). Struggle with relationships throughout teens and early adulthood. I was previously on a great streak, during which time I met my now wife. I PMOed on and off, though much more rarely during dating and then engagement. That all began 3 years ago. Now that I'm married, my worst fear as come true. Despite having regular sex, it still isn't "enough", and my default temptation is to go to PMO. Unfortunately, this is compounded by some fetishes that I know 100% my wife will not engage in. I don't even want to still have them. They're likely just porn induced fetishes that won't go away. So even after sex, I'll get the urge to look at porn related to this and then MO. There have been a couple of times where during the day I've PMOed, and then that night my wife has been "in the mood" but I just couldn't do it. (On one occasion it actually ended up being good because I could still get it up and lasted for ages because I just couldn't orgasm. So my wife liked that, but I think that's unlikely to happen again, and what it more likely is that I'll just get ED if this keeps up.) But anyway, I can see the dark path I am heading down. If this keeps up, eventually this will effect my marriage. I've noticed my moods change after PMO, and my wife has asked me if something is wrong, or asked why I look tired/unwell. I just can't tell her. I need to at least give a serious shot at fighting this before that anyway. Give me some tips that you guys that are married or in a long-term relationship have used to fight off porn addiction. So many young guys think that getting a long term sex partner will cure their addiction. It really won't. I was one of them, and I thought it might too. Unfortunately I now know just how wrong I was.